Question for the ladies-- What is your preference for "rigidness" (degree of erection hardness). Many of us fellas do not get (or maintain) "rock-hard" stiffness when erect due to (I suppose) the sheer physiology of having extraordinary (beyond average) lengths. Staying "rock hard" and angling upward (!) for some of us IS asking a bit much given the size factor itself. ('Even makes me wonder sometimes if more average size fellas might not have a better advantage afterall in some regards!) I visited another website which indicated women are better stimulated by the more average, shorter , upper angled (HARDER) erect sizes...that the more "droopy" longer lengths don't always "cut it" for a woman. I know many of us must squeeze at the base of the shaft (and otherwise compress the blood flow to stay more rigid when entering, etc.) and then from that point we "think" we'll be okay from there....our erection strength may increase (somwhat) once inside. I felt put-down (and somewhat dejected!) reading over there at the other website and so I didn't stay there too long at all! - I figured the website owner must be prejudiced! ;D Anyway, I'd like to hear what the women in our forum think about this? I'm fully aware of the premise of using various "techniques" dealing with size, etc. Let's just get down to the nitty gritty, here. How "hard" must we be (and stay) to meet YOUR needs, ladies? Thanks.