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[GazMc]

Hi Guys

I'm a gay bottom who has only recently come out. I have a few questions to help me understand my sexuality. Any answers advice are appreciated.

1. I am exclusively attracted to bodybuilders and muscle men. Is this normal othrr types of men dont arouse me.

2. Im kind of slim do muscular men only go for other muscle men? Am I doomed to find my dream partner.

3.i have a thing for skintight short shorts and I prefer to look at men in those than naked is that normal?


Again Any advice appreciated as ive only came to terms in last 6 months to a year, but ive decided im going to be proud and ive nothing to be ashamed off.

Thanks Guys

 

[Nikserof]

Congrats on coming out! It's never too late to live life authentically and in a way that feels natural to you. Take it from a late bloomer here!

As to your question, everyone has preferences, and it is easy to just limit yourself to them when your are freshly out, you only want to go for what you know "does it" for you. I would say to go ahead and meet those big muscle men that show interest in you, but also be open to meeting other guys who don't exactly fit that mold. You might find yourself surprised in that you have a great connection and chemistry (both sexual and/or relationship-wise) with someone who on the surface doesn't fit your "type" initially.

It's also worth mentioning that the physical traits that turn you on aren't the be-all-end-all when it comes to a partner. Just as an example: I have a preference for uncut dicks, I don't know what it is about them, but it turns me on a lot, which is somewhat tricky living in the US where most guys are cut. When I was freshly out I only used to meet guys that I knew were uncut, and of course I had a lot of fun with them. But the more guys I met I realized there's so much more to sex and what turns me on than just that physical trait. One of the first cut guys I met I ended up having the best sexual connection with, and over time we got to know each other better and we ended up in a relationship. He's a great guy and brought so much to my life, so I'm happy I was open to meeting him in the first place.

As for whether muscle guys will find you attractive, it's not a one-size-fits-all deal. Some muscle guys like to date other muscle guys, some prefer leaner guys, and others don't care about physique and look for something beyond that in a partner.

I guess the best advice I can give you is to enjoy being out and proud, meet the muscle guys you want to meet, live out your fantasies and explore with them, but also be open to meeting other types of guys. I would also advise against trying to rush to find a partner, you're just figuring things out, and if you happen to meet someone you're romantically compatible with along the way then that would be great, but don't let finding that "special someone" be your main goal right now. Meet guys, explore, enjoy, have fun (always responsibly and safely of course) and learn from your experiences. The more exposure you get the more you'll be able to realize what it is that really works for you.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

You're gay but just have likes in given areas. And said likes don't seem that problematic.

 

[funboi85]

I mean theres not much advice to give here other than you like what you like. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone your attractions and preferences are totally valid.

As for finding your perfect guy, there are guys out there for everyone. Lots of muscle hunks like to get with smaller guys.

 

[elklindoxxx]

Hi Guys

I'm a gay bottom who has only recently come out. I have a few questions to help me understand my sexuality. Any answers advice are appreciated.

1. I am exclusively attracted to bodybuilders and muscle men. Is this normal othrr types of men dont arouse me.

2. Im kind of slim do muscular men only go for other muscle men? Am I doomed to find my dream partner.

3.i have a thing for skintight short shorts and I prefer to look at men in those than naked is that normal?


Again Any advice appreciated as ive only came to terms in last 6 months to a year, but ive decided im going to be proud and ive nothing to be ashamed off.

Thanks Guys

For me as a top, I prefer lean and muscular men someone like myself. That being said, I've had sex with "leaner" less muscular men and have been fully satisfied.

There is nothing wrong with having your preference. But just remember it may take you longer to find what you are looking for....

 

[GazMc]

Thanks guy one more thing is there any parties or events you recommend that I can explore this a bit further?