Preferred Position When Cumming?

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Hi guys, I'd appreciate your tips on what positions give you the best orgasms. I've read the "When Cumming Inside A Woman, Hold Still Or Continue To Thrust?" thread, but my question is on positions, not thrusting speed.

I typically fuck my wife in mish, doggy and their variants, basically any male-dominant position. When I'm close to cumming, my wife senses it and typically starts cumming herself, moaning really loudly and asking me to fuck her harder. I couldn't slow down even if with the willpower of an ox. That means my orgasm is very intense but very quick. I feel a huge sensation just before the first shot, but all other shots I don't really feel too much, it's more release than pleasure.

When wanking I get the best climaxes by slowing down right at the end and just massaging my helmet rather than pumping my whole shaft. Every shot feels fucking amazing. I want a position where I can get something close to that when shagging.

Sometimes my wife rides me to orgasm and that's led to some of my best ones because she rides me much slower than I drill her. But it's also led to some of my worst as I have no control of the angle, depth or anything else so it's basically a lottery. Any tips on positions that consistently do it for you would be great.
 
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Hi guys, I'd appreciate your tips on what positions give you the best orgasms. I've read the "When Cumming Inside A Woman, Hold Still Or Continue To Thrust?" thread, but my question is on positions, not thrusting speed.

I typically fuck my wife in mish, doggy and their variants, basically any male-dominant position. When I'm close to cumming, my wife senses it and typically starts cumming herself, moaning really loudly and asking me to fuck her harder. I couldn't slow down even if with the willpower of an ox. That means my orgasm is very intense but very quick. I feel a huge sensation just before the first shot, but all other shots I don't really feel too much, it's more release than pleasure.

When wanking I get the best climaxes by slowing down right at the end and just massaging my helmet rather than pumping my whole shaft. Every shot feels fucking amazing. I want a position where I can get something close to that when shagging.

Sometimes my wife rides me to orgasm and that's led to some of my best ones because she rides me much slower than I drill her. But it's also led to some of my worst as I have no control of the angle, depth or anything else so it's basically a lottery. Any tips on positions that consistently do it for you would be great.
Not a new question but I’ll bite.
Whoever is in control of the position has most of the control of the pace and even stop for a second, not when cunning all the rest of the act can do or undo whatever you want. If the angle hurts you ask her to change it or help/guide her to a more comfortable angle.
I’m not you and your wife isn’t mine you will have to find whatever works for you.
You have a nice research ahead, improvise, try to cover every inch of her body, not all positions of the book are for everyone and I feel some are just uncomfortable.
Once I even stand still deep in her when she was cuming she hated it, what I do for the sake of science...
 
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As long as my penis is inside the woman when I am cumming, I have no real preference in the position.
Do I have favorite positions? Yes, of course! I last long doggy style or if she is on top. Cumming when we are face to face is an intense and sensual experience, so finishing in missionary is great for that.
 

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Any position feels good, but missionary is great for the actual orgasm. I can thrust as hard and as fast (or, indeed, as slowly and gently) as I want. I love it too when she grabs my ass and tries to push me in further or wraps her legs around me tightly as if to stop me pulling out (as if I would...).

But as I said, it's always good.
 
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As others have written, my preferred position when cumming is ANY position where my dick is in my wife. Missionary (our most frequent), doggy (God, do I love this!), face down-ass up, cowgirl, sideways - it is ALL good. Personally, I can last forever if my wife is riding me cowgirl. It just doesn't stimulate my dick enough but I love the position anyway. I can watch my wife's breasts jiggle, watch her face, and I can tease her clit with my thumb as she rides.

For whatever reason, I cum in an instant if she gets in the face down-ass up position and I squat behind her to enter. If I'm on my knees, I can last but squatting does something that really stimulates me and I erupt in 5 strokes.
 

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Only happened once but this guy had me rolled up so I was on my shoulders and I came right in my own face and then he came on my face and it was so hot. I jerk off to that memory often.
 
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Several positions get me off the best, but all where I am in control. IMO missionary long slow 'making love' has one type of prolonged orgasm. 'Got to have it now' aka 'first time/new relationship' fucking is another, ending in those quick spurts. Anyway, during the best orgasms my lips are cold and I'm liteheaded (and weak kneed depending). I guess the blood really does leave your brain!
 
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As long as my penis is inside the woman when I am cumming, I have no real preference in the position.
Do I have favorite positions? Yes, of course! I last long doggy style or if she is on top. Cumming when we are face to face is an intense and sensual experience, so finishing in missionary is great for that.
I have seen movies and such. Disclaimer: I don’t know what is great with anyone- position wise. I am not being critical(hopefully)
Why do so many men in popular pop culture and some sites with couple not face each other? Do they not like their front features?
I have witnessed so many rear ends- it is like mooning is really in, except with sex included. I would think it would be more intense seung the reactions of each other and looking into eyes that would heighten sex. Not that being in back obviously isn’t unpleasant. Still, why no front?
 
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As long as I can open my legs a bit, anything. With the legs together I enjoy it less.

And sometimes it is good to not move at all, just to stay deep, from the moment you start cuming. It is counter-intuitive, but feels good.
 

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I have seen movies and such. Disclaimer: I don’t know what is great with anyone- position wise. I am not being critical(hopefully)
Why do so many men in popular pop culture and some sites with couple not face each other? Do they not like their front features?
I have witnessed so many rear ends- it is like mooning is really in, except with sex included. I would think it would be more intense seung the reactions of each other and looking into eyes that would heighten sex. Not that being in back obviously isn’t unpleasant. Still, why no front?
Movies, mainstream or porn, are not real life and what you see is designed for maximum viewing pleasure, not the pleasure of the actors involved. That said, rear entry can be, and is, amazing, as I can enjoy the look of her ass while holding her hips to thrust deep. The feeling can also be intense if we're doing standing rear entry. I like to finish in any of the face-to-face positions, with her on top, or me on top, for the full body contact, and the ability to kiss while still thrusting and cumming.
 

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It’s a really good question. Visually I prefer to cum in doggystyle / reverse cowgirl as I really get off on butts. But sensation-wise I think normal cowgirl is best, as it’s the deepest and most stimulating for me