Preferred verb for rough sex?

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  1. Kevbo

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    This is almost a psychological question...

    Women, if you consensually have rough sex (PIV intercourse) with a guy, you're both really going at it, is there a specific verb that fits the situation for you? If you were to describe it later for close friends, for instance?

    And does it matter who the aggressor is, or who's on top or controlling the action?

    Examples: "Last night I got totally nailed." or "Last night I screwed his brains into liquid" or "He and I rammed for hours".

    I would not expect "made love" to be accurate, and f**k would be an easy choice but way too abstract and generic. I'm looking for the word or words that, to you as a woman, fit your perspective of the attitude and mood and sensation. Maybe there's a metaphor that differentiates rough sex from slower, more emotional lovemaking?

    Thanks,
    Kevbo
     
  2. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    When i read your examples, i cant say i really even talk to people in my real life about our sex. I cant imagine mentioning it up to anyone in my personal life. I think what we do in our bedroom should be something kept between us.
     
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  4. Kevbo

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    Fair enough, but I don't mean it quite this way. I'm just trying to get some sense of how women view the physical sensation of rough sex, as compared to the usually essential emotional setting of lovemaking.
     
  5. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Yeah i knew that would be a downer for the original poster. But i cant imagine having anything important to say about the sex we have to anyone, let alone whether or not we did it rougher that night. I would really not know how to bring that up in a conversation.

    That would render an uncomfortable silence with an odd stare im sure. I know its hard to imagine some of us NOT talking like the women on Sex in the City. I have a feeling many of us don't hang out with a lot of women anyway. I know i dont.
     
  6. Principessa

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    I just call it fucking. :cool: Or maybe Great Sex. :smile:
     
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    Totally annihilated
     
  8. dolfette

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    most women just don't talk like that.

    that's the major tell for guys pretending to be girls online.
     
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    ruff'
    I like it ..Do You? (asks partner?)
    Take it from there - as to proceed /or not
    Personally i dont like .. rough sex'
    Passion can build but only to a certain level.
    enz
     
  10. greatdickismydrug

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    well, from the "rare beast" that does talk this way:

    I had exactly this type of sex a few days ago and described it to my (mostly LPSG-haven't talked to my real-life friends/sisters yet) friends in these words:

    "fucked the shit out of my mouth and pussy...ouch but in a good way"

    "drilled me the way I like"
     
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    fucking works for me..

    and on a previous point...you really dont hear girls anywhere other than porn saying "totally annihilated"
     
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    "I fucked him like a cavewoman on crack."


    I have never actually said that, but it's a good way to describe a session of high intensity hetero sex I thought.

    And I agree with what MR said, I really don't often have the occasion to describe our super happy good fun time in visceral terminology or in any other manner for that matter. I have very few close female friends, and about half of them are totally and completely gay -- and I'm not getting graphic with them about my sex life so as to be respectful. My other close female friends are scattered about the country (and I don't see them that often so chitchatting about the sex I had last night or last weekend is not very common) with the exception of one, and she is married with 2 full-time jobs so I see her infrequently as well. None of my friends (or myself for that matter) are anything like the women in SATC -- we don't sit around getting all gossipy about sex and men and penis size and oral ability or anything like that. Nothing specific anyway.

    I talk about this stuff a little more with my close male buddies. Still though I don't give much detail or get very graphic.
     
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    I know a couple, but I get what you're saying :smirk:
     
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    I have been known to say I fucked him silly. :biggrin1: Especially when he can't wipe that Cheshire cat grin off his face. :tongue:
     
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    QFT

    I had a gf who couldn't even say "cunt".
     
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    the other word i use aside from fucking and screwing is banging.
     
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    Are those buddies str8 or gay?
     
  19. Kevbo

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    I appreciate the responses on this :->... and I want to reiterate, I wasn't specifically wondering if you described rough sex in detail to your friends, I was simply trying to get a sense of how women psychologically differentiate rough sex from lovemaking. Is it a matter of feeling "taken" or "pushed beyond [your] limits/boundaries", or maybe you felt a sort of "itch" that only rough sex would "scratch" -- I hope you see where I'm going with this. Just part of my continuing effort to try to educate myself in reading women and addressing their needs :->.

    Cheers,
    Kevbo
     
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    i usually say "it was so good, i ate his head"
     
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