Ladies, would you ever date a man who preferred giving and receiving oral over having sex? This doesn't mean that he'd hate sex, but that he would not be as excited about it as most men appear to be. Are there any men on this board that have a neutral attitude toward penetration and prefer mutual oral play and/or other sex acts instead (including fetishes)? If so, what makes you enjoy those other acts more than having sex? I guess I am curious as to how "normal" or common this is. I've met a few guys like this in the past.