I use as lube, like a lot of guys. I usually have a huge amount of precum. Always have had since high school. My wife dislikes me getting the sheets wet, so I put on a condom during foreplay, as that is when I really have a hot of precum.
Most of my female partners think "Dick Honey" is gross too, because it gets on the sheets and their theighs etc. I precum a lot. One asked me if I had cum already. I said no, but she had to put the light on to see for herself. It was just about everywhere. Sometimes, I keep my shorts on til I can find a hole to put it in. Sometimes, if first time, I work it into the conversation during foreplay that I precum alot. Personally, I'm not too fond of having to sleep on a wet spot either. It reminds me of the wet dreams I used to have.
As for guys, most are fasicinated with it, but if one is sqeemish about it, I used to put a few drops on my finger and rub it on their lips. Course, that was before AIDS etc. Now they would really freak out.
Has anyone else found that Dick Honey can be a problem in the safe sex environment? I have found that some people will give unprotected head, but back off when you are going to cum, but once you start drooling, they have seconds thoughts about giving head all together, cause fluids are fluids, right? A few times, a sex partner was reluctant to give head because of the fluid and another time, when the person realized he was getting precum, things kinda ended abruptly. I am bi and like hitting on bi-courious married men and have always respected my partners and felt that I was practicing safe sex most of the time. I know I am digging myself into a hole with this thread, but I am beginning to question when safe sex should begin. Is head OK unless there is precum or going to cum? I use a condom for penetration that is going to end in cumming. I can't believe I haven't thought of these questions before now. I have never run into a guy that precums as much as I do, so I haven't looked at it from the other side. I had better stop now before you'all begin thinking I am trash.