Premature ejaculation problems

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  1. amadordelsexo

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    I have a serious premature ejaculation problem (still I haven't make any treatment ,but need orientation ) ,even I can ejaculate with out be my penis complete hard .
    I have seem some differents porno movie and I could say that regular man when his penis isen't hard he need extra action to feel something.
    But not to ejaculate ,even in direct sex action they need extra masturbation to get hard .
    I mean impossible to ejaculate with a soft pennis ,if it happen think something very bad happen .
    When penis get hard with some help as quimical products (sidenafil as example or in a natural way as a big lovely sensation ectc.. ), it is different, ejaculation last more .
    But think ejaculation have no time is the girl or patner who must to the other when he must rush or hurry the ejaculation .
     
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    Several thoughts:

    * Nature has designed men to be quite quick. If you are fit and young you will tend to be quick.
    * Men last longer with experience, age, loss of fitness, if ill, if drunk. Only the first of these is good.
    * Lots of men boast about how long they can last. While there are certainly men who can last a long time, there are also lots who are telling tales to impress their mates.
    * What does it matter if first time is quick? Wait a few minutes and second time will be slower. This gives you the time for foreplay, which is important for women.
    * There is a medical industry helping guys with PE - ie people who make money from telling guys they have a problem, then selling the solution.
     
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    Two studies suggesting PE has an solid genetic basis, one reported here by the BBC and the other here in Medical News Today.


    BBC NEWS | Health | Premature ejaculation gene found

    A Genetic Link To Premature Ejaculation


    I've only ever encountered one partner with PE; we got back to his place after a New Year's Eve party and he shot just as he was opening his jeans. But out of all the other guys I've played with hard -- yeah, probably numbering into the thousands -- no early cummers. I wonder what the statistical odds of that are.
     
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    I just turned 50 and I've only been with two...they/we were both young at the time, which I assume had something to do with it. I can only think of one time I was with someone else and went off too soon. I was stressed from a bad drive to his house and not paying enough attention to what Mr. Spurty was trying to tell me. Like the original poster, I wasn't even hard yet.
     
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    I'll throw in this: somepeople really love quick cummers. I'm one who does. In my experience, quick cummers are usually good for multiple shots - that first one that comes as hes's undoing his zipper? Just a warm-up for more good things to cum.

    So, Dude, think of it that way - you're good for more orgasms than the ordinary slow cummer. And there are guys out there who appreciate that- big time.
     
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