I have a serious premature ejaculation problem (still I haven't make any treatment ,but need orientation ) ,even I can ejaculate with out be my penis complete hard . I have seem some differents porno movie and I could say that regular man when his penis isen't hard he need extra action to feel something. But not to ejaculate ,even in direct sex action they need extra masturbation to get hard . I mean impossible to ejaculate with a soft pennis ,if it happen think something very bad happen . When penis get hard with some help as quimical products (sidenafil as example or in a natural way as a big lovely sensation ectc.. ), it is different, ejaculation last more . But think ejaculation have no time is the girl or patner who must to the other when he must rush or hurry the ejaculation .