So my wife & I have been married for 4 years, and I've been with 2 women before her. Last night, for the first time in my entire life, I came during foreplay while we were preparing for sex.
It started like our sexual sessions usually do - about 15 or so minutes of kissing, rubbing and removing each other's clothes. I then started to finger her pretty hard, which I don't always do during foreplay. She was especially into it last night, and I was incredibly turned on. After about a minute or so of that, I couldn't help myself and I just ejaculated.
She realized what happened when she reached down to stroke me again, and she let out a very disappointing sounding, "Oh, honey..." Like I said, she had been especially turned on last night, and I think she was really looking forward to having sex.
This morning, we started fooling around again, and we didn't spend nearly as much time on foreplay. After just about 3 minutes, I got on top and slid inside. She said, "Wow, you really wanted to make sure you got in this time, huh?" For some reason, that drove me crazy and I came after being inside of her for only about 20 seconds. Now I'm no stallion or anything, but I usually last about 10 minutes before ejaculating during intercourse, so after last night, this was a little disturbing to me.
So, my questions are: For the guys - has this ever happened to you before, after never experiencing it previously? (FYI - I'm 35 years old, and I've probably had sex hundreds of times in my life.) For the ladies - has this ever happened to you with a guy, especially someone you've been with many times? What did you think?
Just looking for some opinions, thank you.
It started like our sexual sessions usually do - about 15 or so minutes of kissing, rubbing and removing each other's clothes. I then started to finger her pretty hard, which I don't always do during foreplay. She was especially into it last night, and I was incredibly turned on. After about a minute or so of that, I couldn't help myself and I just ejaculated.
She realized what happened when she reached down to stroke me again, and she let out a very disappointing sounding, "Oh, honey..." Like I said, she had been especially turned on last night, and I think she was really looking forward to having sex.
This morning, we started fooling around again, and we didn't spend nearly as much time on foreplay. After just about 3 minutes, I got on top and slid inside. She said, "Wow, you really wanted to make sure you got in this time, huh?" For some reason, that drove me crazy and I came after being inside of her for only about 20 seconds. Now I'm no stallion or anything, but I usually last about 10 minutes before ejaculating during intercourse, so after last night, this was a little disturbing to me.
So, my questions are: For the guys - has this ever happened to you before, after never experiencing it previously? (FYI - I'm 35 years old, and I've probably had sex hundreds of times in my life.) For the ladies - has this ever happened to you with a guy, especially someone you've been with many times? What did you think?
Just looking for some opinions, thank you.