Premature Ejaculation?

Craigcee98

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So my wife & I have been married for 4 years, and I've been with 2 women before her. Last night, for the first time in my entire life, I came during foreplay while we were preparing for sex.
It started like our sexual sessions usually do - about 15 or so minutes of kissing, rubbing and removing each other's clothes. I then started to finger her pretty hard, which I don't always do during foreplay. She was especially into it last night, and I was incredibly turned on. After about a minute or so of that, I couldn't help myself and I just ejaculated.
She realized what happened when she reached down to stroke me again, and she let out a very disappointing sounding, "Oh, honey..." Like I said, she had been especially turned on last night, and I think she was really looking forward to having sex.
This morning, we started fooling around again, and we didn't spend nearly as much time on foreplay. After just about 3 minutes, I got on top and slid inside. She said, "Wow, you really wanted to make sure you got in this time, huh?" For some reason, that drove me crazy and I came after being inside of her for only about 20 seconds. Now I'm no stallion or anything, but I usually last about 10 minutes before ejaculating during intercourse, so after last night, this was a little disturbing to me.
So, my questions are: For the guys - has this ever happened to you before, after never experiencing it previously? (FYI - I'm 35 years old, and I've probably had sex hundreds of times in my life.) For the ladies - has this ever happened to you with a guy, especially someone you've been with many times? What did you think?
Just looking for some opinions, thank you.
 

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That will come and go. (no pun intended) Your moods will shift and sometimes you will b fast and sometimes you will be slow. Your love life will extend into the rest of your days, and you will be affected by your work life, your family life, and the every day stresses and comforts that come to all of us every day. Whatever you do, don't let the normal variations in your sexual performance have any effect on your love life with your spouse. Hopefully your relationship will be the one thing that is reliable, and everything else will just be something else you have do deal with outside of your relationship, even the sex. my guess is that you should relax and it will be back to normal soon, if not immediately. If you have become accustomed to having sex a certain way it is actually difficult to change it very much after you have established a pattern. Don't stress about it. That will make it worse.