hi all, I have been suffering from pe alllll my life. it doesn't get any better over time or if i masturbate before sex or what not. Once I am horny, I just cum - sometimes with just 3 or 4 strokes. I have had sex before (with girls) and with all the foreplay, etc. once I was ready to penetrate, I would just come at the entrance of the vagina :redface: I came to the conclussion that I am gay, and I never top for that reason.... I have tried to hold it for 2 or 3 minutes when I am ready to shoot, etc. etc. etc. Any good ideas or suggestions? Sex therapy? Numbing creams - I actually haven't tried this yet... hmmm something to consider. Thanks all!