At least I am anonymous here. I guess there must be other guys who suffer with the same problem. I am married and since I began having sex, I last for about 3 minutes, sometimes 5 but that's a rarity. I have tried all sorts of things but once I start, I cannot stop until I cum. I have thought about sheep, work, you name it. Nothing helps. Recently I heard that taking ANAFRANIL delays ejaculation. This is one of hte side effects. I have now been taking one tablet every day 10mg. I found that it is helping and my sessions are being extended - not to the time frame I desire, but at least it is an improvement. I was wondering if anyone had the same experience and did take Anafranil. If so, for how long and what dosage. What should I do in the future? Continue with 10mg every day or can I reduce it?