Premature ejaculator

[deleted817718]

I know this isn't always true, but it seems that quite often men with big cocks also have great stamina, produce lots of cum, and can recover quickly and cum multiple times.
Definitely true of my wife's former lover.
Unfortunately, non of things are true of me.
You big men have all the luck!!

From my wife's experience with lovers, she would agree with you.

 

[orly6666]

Viagra helped me with that issue. Don't know why though.

I was never a fast cummer, but using viagra has made it even harder for me to cum. My cock head has lost a lot of sensitivity in the last 5 years, after starting to use Viagra.

 

[Uncutpete]

uite often men with big cocks also have great stamina, produce lots of cum, and can recover quickly and cum multiple times

Certainly is my experience!

 

[joeweekend]

First guy I ever fell for was a blazing fast summer. When we were teens, he could cum - in his pants - without being touched.

I've always had a thing for guys who pop fast.

The secret to a good time is to concentrate on something other than the cock. And then only tease the cock. Pull off, and go back to his balls, his nipples, his lips and tongue. Then repeat.

 

[Englishmansabroad]

I know this isn't always true, but it seems that quite often men with big cocks also have great stamina, produce lots of cum, and can recover quickly and cum multiple times.
Definitely true of my wife's former lover.
Unfortunately, non of things are true of me.
You big men have all the luck!!

I know I'm going g against received wisdom, but I don't agree.

I've looked into all this, and I think this stuff is largely a trope of porn.Actually in private a lot of the girls said of guys like John Holmes that they were really quote lousy and sex with them was like fucking a limp slug.Also you have to remember most are on Viagra now.

There's bound to be some real big guys who step up to meet the stereotype, but fewer than you guys think.If anything theres good reason to think very big guys have less consistency of hardness, lower erection angle, note e.d.etc.Think about it, blood flow issues and so on.

Some say all guys even come harder, and myself,I have seen evidence of this-also that small guys can be very hard!. If anything big guys are the ones liable to cum too early, due to erection problems, and becoming lazy due to size.

As a very big dick owner myself I've not really found I fit with Any of the above stereotypes; certainly not now I'm older.Added to this remember a huge one won't fit many women,and will miss the main pleasure centre,4 inches in.

Beyond a certain point its actually. better to have an average or even a bit smaller penis than a very big one.

 

[Marcum]

I love watching premature ejaculators!

 

[aprg1]

I'm with others who have replied - ever since I started taking Cialis, my staying power has increased a lot. The couple I play with call me "the machine" - something that never would have been attached to me before that. Now, it could also be age and comfort/maturity plays a part as well, but I noticed an immediate difference once I started on a daily low-dose Cialis.

 

[deleted73529]

I would never use the word "all." There are some small guys who have great control.... I just don't see their wives as often as the men who can't stop themselves from ejaculating. In those couples, the frustration tends to really build, so that the wives are very happy to have me fucking them. Right now, I have three regular couples. In one of those couples, the hub can hold off cumming for a quite a while. The wife just likes really big cocks, He is small, and they both like having me join them. So when we are together the hub can stroke and watch us for a long time. The hubs in the other two couples cum very quickly and don't have the kind of libido for their wives that would satisfy them.

Interesting discussion...as a very modestly endowed cuckold husband, I've had the opposite problem...one of being unable to get enough friction to easily climax. I had sex with a couple of BBW's before marriage and had a very difficult time cumming in their magnificent pussies. Same with my wife...particularly after she's had sex with a well hung man...she's very loose and slippery and climaxing is a problem.

 

[Uncutpete]

Interesting discussion...as a very modestly endowed cuckold husband, I've had the opposite problem...one of being unable to get enough friction to easily climax. I had sex with a couple of BBW's before marriage and had a very difficult time cumming in their magnificent pussies. Same with my wife...particularly after she's had sex with a well hung man...she's very loose and slippery and climaxing is a problem.

I have seen that in hubs of my couples in the past. She can't feel him, or hardly feel him, and he can't get enough friction to climax. I see you are remedying the situation for her, good man. You may have to be satisfied with her sucking you or jerking you off... not so bad if she gets fucked to her orgasms too... and you get to watch.

 

[amazzzed2]

I have seen that in hubs of my couples in the past. She can't feel him, or hardly feel him, and he can't get enough friction to climax. I see you are remedying the situation for her, good man. You may have to be satisfied with her sucking you or jerking you off... not so bad if she gets fucked to her orgasms too... and you get to watch.

This makes perfect sense to me!
Great solution for all involved!
Of course part of this is your fault. Once the wife has enjoyed your big cock, she will barely be able to feel her hubby's little penis!

 

[960417]

I had one guy that would generally cum fast. He'd just be getting into a rhythm and *boom* all done. And it was slightly annoying, because all the prep and everything that goes into a good fuck session to have it over in less than a couple minutes. I started giving him a beer or two and it seemed to help him a bit.

Maybe find something that eases the mental edge/horniness that is going on in the mind might do the trick.

 

[Beanie]

It depends how excited I am, I can come really quickly (like 2 minutes)or I can be going for hours and just give up. So odd

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

It depends how excited I am, I can come really quickly (like 2 minutes)or I can be going for hours and just give up. So odd

That's my problem. What about us guys that take forever to cum? It takes me forever a quickie for me is like 30 mins of pounding hard and fast then I cum. Normally it takes 1 to hours of fucking and changing positions not counting foreplay.

 

[EquusAZ]

Our bodies are all different. After being prescribed SSRI's for anxiety - I can really control my orgasms better now! Its almost like I get to choose when I cum!

 

[amazzzed2]

That's my problem. What about us guys that take forever to cum? It takes me forever a quickie for me is like 30 mins of pounding hard and fast then I cum. Normally it takes 1 to hours of fucking and changing positions not counting foreplay.

I'm sure that the women love it!!

 

[Uncutpete]

This makes perfect sense to me!
Great solution for all involved!
Of course part of this is your fault. Once the wife has enjoyed your big cock, she will barely be able to feel her hubby's little penis!

The stretch effect of my cock inside her lasts maybe a day or two max after I have fucked her. by then the normal vagina returns to its original size, However with really small hubs, the wife can't even feel him in the first place,

 

[amazzzed2]

The stretch effect of my cock inside her lasts maybe a day or two max after I have fucked her. by then the normal vagina returns to its original size, However with really small hubs, the wife can't even feel him in the first place,

How frustrating for the wife, and often for the hubby that he can't satisfy his wife. They are lucky to have you to take good care of her in bed!

 

[Uncutpete]

How frustrating for the wife, and often for the hubby that he can't satisfy his wife. They are lucky to have you to take good care of her in bed!

Part of my work as a bull is dealing with the wife's frustration. If she has not built up too much anger about it, my taking care of her fucking needs can lead to a real improvement in the marriage, letting them both enjoy other kinds of non penetrative sex.

 

[deleted817718]

Part of my work as a bull is dealing with the wife's frustration. If she has not built up too much anger about it, my taking care of her fucking needs can lead to a real improvement in the marriage, letting them both enjoy other kinds of non penetrative sex.

My wife would agree with you, and so would I, because she would tell me to agree

 

[firedogg81]

i must confess that I am something of a minute man. I've always been very fast, and never found a way to hold back that worked for me. I know this isn't an uncommon thing from time to time for most men.
What's been other men and women's experience with premature ejaculators?

Yes most of the time veriquick within seconds I'm getting in or on the way in