Premature ejaculator

[firedogg81]

The majority of the husbands of the wives I fuck ejaculate prematurely. It may be the most frustrating thing for the wives, who usually need enough time to get going before their orgasms begin. Often the hubs will lose sexual energy, and not really be able to enjoy any sex play after they have cum. PE causes a lot of anger for the wives, and they can get verbally abusive of the hub when I am with the couple; and it can be right in the middle of our fuck. I love providing real satisfaction for wives who have been frustrated by premature husbands for their entire marriages.

Yes wives need a man like you for sure

 

[littleguy2]

I was never a fast cummer, but using viagra has made it even harder for me to cum. My cock head has lost a lot of sensitivity in the last 5 years, after starting to use Viagra.

Same happened to me. It is now become unusual for me to cum during sex and my cock gets so insensitive that I can’t even stroke one out.

 

[1224298]

i must confess that I am something of a minute man. I've always been very fast, and never found a way to hold back that worked for me. I know this isn't an uncommon thing from time to time for most men.
What's been other men and women's experience with premature ejaculators?

I didn’t take time to read all the responses so someone my have said already but Being uncut is also a contributing factor. It’s like a double edged sword for me. (No pun intended) it’s amazing how great it feels bc it’s so sensitive but personally it happens to me about 50% of the time. If I fool around too much before and get all wet with Precum I can blow my load just rubbing against my partner. Other times I can go a while no problems. Some people think it’s hot that you cum so quick bc to them “you’re so turned on by them they must be really good!” And then there’s those that are like. Already? That’s it? Then there’s the ones that say it’s ok and it’s hot and blah blah but in your mind you’re ready to go lock yourself in your room and eat 5 or 6 Popeyes buiscuts with no drink and just end it all. but in all seriousness. It’s strange some statistics say you have that problem from not jerking off enough when younger and pulling back the foreskin when peeing and etc. (Which over time would make it not AS sensitive. Killing some of the nerves In your penis head) while other statistics say the complete opposite. So. Who knows. I wouldn’t put too much in it. Just take it slow and use the time to please your partner in other ways so you can keep your cool and not get too excited too fast and last longer. But that’s just my 2 cents for what it’s worth.

 

[4097701]

this started happening to my partner years ago, it's not easy to deal with, but he does other things
we are open and there are a few times where i've been so excited meeting a random guy who is sucking me and i cum super fast

 

[Hairylegs]

I used to think I was a precummer, and for a few times after I lost my virginity, I definitely was. I'd see the open, waiting pussy, and I would go off, touch free. There were times when I would start spraying the moment my dick just touched vag. Things came back to normal, but I rarely last more than a minute during a fuck. Then I started watching some decent amateur porn, at least with guys. Not at all unusual from the time the guy starts working up his boner to his first squirts for a guy to last only a minute, less, perhaps a bit more. It's almost an exception for some guys last for upwards of 2 minutes. Seems to me that once the jerkoff begins, it's over in about a minute. Same with butt fucking. Very unusual for the top to last much more than a minute from the time he fully penetrates his bottom's ass hole, does his thrusting and humping, that his ejaculation grunts and cum spasms begin. Check it out, see for yourselves. Now this is not to say that guys can't last forever or go on for ages. Hell, when I'm edging with other guys under sordid circumstances, I usually last 1-2 hours before I HAVE to release my wigglers. But I think by and large, once you are committed to the act, ejaculation comes on very quickly as a rule, not the exception.

 

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[halcyondays]

Biologically there's no such thing as premature ejaculation unless it happens before coitus, i.e before vaginal penetration.

Most vertebrate animals are done in seconds not minutes including our primate cousins.

Premature ejaculation during coitus is actually a reproductive advantage in our species. Here's why. If the couple keeps having sex there's already a pool of semen deep inside the vagina into which the cervix dips with the pulsations of female orgasm which increases the amount of sperm that makes it through the cervix into the uterus which increases the chance of fertilization and conception.

 

[longstroke7]

Christ this is bad. You know that girl had to be wishing she was getting cock from the other guy.

 

[Runaway Reinder]

the thing is, the smaller your cock is, the easy is to your heart to fill it up of blood, giving you a rock hard boner and making you cum a little bit faster, since your dick comes to that state of arousal we get when we are close to cum and it gets hard as a rock and you can feel your heath beat in your dick very intensily and we get nasty and savage.

- Do a lot of cardio

- Expose your dick's head to your underwear if you are uncut, all day/night long, i mean "take off the hood", it will hurt a little the first 1~2 weeks but it will be less sencitive so you will last a little bit longer.

- Do not get too into it when having sex at least the first 5 minutes, thinking about disgusting things can help, but not too much, it will make you lose your boner.

- Expose yourself to sex, masturbate a lot, watch a lot of porn and have sex at least 1 time a day with your wife.


You will be enduring at least 10 or 15 minutes of sex in two monts xd

 

[Jasonhill924]

I was always pretty good with lasting anywhere from 5-15 mins with sex. If I was slowly being teased with a BJ, I've gotten 45 mins BJs many of times. Years ago I started to notice that my dick was getting more sensitive which started to shorten the time I could last. Then add becoming a cuckold to my sexy hotwife.. we now I can't last more than 30 seconds and if I'm teasing enough mentally, I can just cum in my pants without jerking off.

Of I can now cum even with my dick being soft too

 

[1010573]

Biologically there's no such thing as premature ejaculation unless it happens before coitus, i.e before vaginal penetration.

Most vertebrate animals are done in seconds not minutes including our primate cousins.

Premature ejaculation during coitus is actually a reproductive advantage in our species. Here's why. If the couple keeps having sex there's already a pool of semen deep inside the vagina into which the cervix dips with the pulsations of female orgasm which increases the amount of sperm that makes it through the cervix into the uterus which increases the chance of fertilization and conception.

This is a significant factor. Evolutionarily, you don’t want to be humping away for minutes because then you get eaten by a saber tooth tiger and your genes die out.

For me, my first orgasm comes quick. But the ones after I’m able to control a lot better and last a little longer. I think that’s the trick that no one wants to consider. If you’re emotionally and physically done after your first cum-shot, regroup, take care of your partner for a bit, then get back to work. If your dick can’t, start hitting the gym, eat better, get more sleep.

 

[deleted4500261]

What I did when I was younger to train myself was that I masturbated (a lot) and I would start slowly and controlled. Then I would speed up and when I was about to cum I would stop. I would try and focus on getting back to being calm and still hard and then repeat. Over time I could just hold myself back mentally. I was also able to have multiple ejaculations from the same erection but that took a lot of work to get to that.
If you are with a partner, it is important that you set the pace of what happens. Spending extra time on foreplay and possibly getting the other person off before you even have sex will help as well. When you are inside the person, take a moment to just adjust to the sensation before doing anything else. Calm your mind and tell yourself that you are in control of yourself.
I have been close to cumming and pulled out, then went back to foreplay to slow things down on my end but keep it going for them so that things don’t come to an abrupt halt.
Not sure if any of that will be helpful. Good luck and stay positive.

 

[Mohotr]

Quick cummer here - all my life. In my younger days I would cum but stay hard and go a second and maybe a third time. Worked out fine. Lots of oral and stimulation for the wife - using a vibrator - all good.

I wanted the experience of fucking for a long time - thrusting and thrusting - 20 min or so but never could do that - even on the third time. So - I tried viagra and and got the worst headache imaginable. Not worth it.

So then - went to a urologist and got a drug to give myself a shot in my cock. Kept it up for sure - an hour or more. Funny thing is that it felt artificial. We fucked for a long time but it didn't even feel good.

So now - much older - can only cum once. I make sure to do lots and lots of foreplay. My cock gets hard and I love walking around with it swinging around. I do oral on her - vibrator - nipple play etc. and I keep this raging hard for a long time - all through the foreplay. Then when she is about to cum - and is really wet and slippery - I can put my cock in and we both cum in a few strokes.

Bottom line is that we are all different and we need to learn to use what we have - bring pleasure to whomever you are with and experience the feelings.

 

[hzs3fg]

I guess I would consider myself a moderately fast cummer.

I found that I can gain control if I go into a sex session with no intention of orgasming and deliberately stop all activity the moment I feel any sign of getting close. And that's it for the night

The next night, I do the same.

By the third night, it is nearly impossible for me to cum, no matter how much I try. I can go for 30 minutes, an hour, as long as we want and I simply cannot cum.

I can keep this going now for multiple episodes over a few weeks or longer if we want. It gets to the point where the only way I can finally orgasm is through a furious masturbation session.

 

[Quiet]

I love how Viagra lets me fuck like a porn star, having to push hard to get over the edge. Spent many prior years trying so hard to hold back the inevitable...