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Hmm, I think there was a similar thread somewhere, but now I can't find it... Anyway here goes.
This is of course a luxury problem, but my girlfriend orgasms extremely quickly from penetration. Sometimes in under a minute. Of course I'm happy that she so easily finds pleasure in sex, but after the orgasm, she loosens up completely, and is too much "at ease" to orgasm again. I suspect that she orgasms pretty heavily, and usually she is just too exhausted to sustain an interest in the sexual act. No matter how long, how much or what we've tried, she has never been able to reach multiple orgasms in one session. It takes at least a couple of hours for her vagina to regain that level of "awareness" that allows her to orgasm again.
Does anyone have any experience with this sorta thing? Is there any way to get the sex going again, if not to make her orgasm again, but for her vagina to "wake up".
Damn, I know these descriptions suck, but I can only describe how her vagina feels to me, and it's really hard to put into words, but it is like the muscles all completely relax for an extended period of time. Now I'm by no means a stud, and I can easily finish anyway, but it is kind of anticlimactic, because she seems to temporarily be in an almost asexual state.
She doesn't cum easily from petting, oral etc., so we are able to extend the act for quite some time, which we do, but this only decreases the "pre-orgasmic penetration time" (wow, isn't that a poetic phrase?).
I hope this at all makes sense. Do any of you have any tips on how to make her last longer or how to increase the possibily of making her orgasm again? It seems to apply to every position we've tried.
This is of course a luxury problem, but my girlfriend orgasms extremely quickly from penetration. Sometimes in under a minute. Of course I'm happy that she so easily finds pleasure in sex, but after the orgasm, she loosens up completely, and is too much "at ease" to orgasm again. I suspect that she orgasms pretty heavily, and usually she is just too exhausted to sustain an interest in the sexual act. No matter how long, how much or what we've tried, she has never been able to reach multiple orgasms in one session. It takes at least a couple of hours for her vagina to regain that level of "awareness" that allows her to orgasm again.
Does anyone have any experience with this sorta thing? Is there any way to get the sex going again, if not to make her orgasm again, but for her vagina to "wake up".
Damn, I know these descriptions suck, but I can only describe how her vagina feels to me, and it's really hard to put into words, but it is like the muscles all completely relax for an extended period of time. Now I'm by no means a stud, and I can easily finish anyway, but it is kind of anticlimactic, because she seems to temporarily be in an almost asexual state.
She doesn't cum easily from petting, oral etc., so we are able to extend the act for quite some time, which we do, but this only decreases the "pre-orgasmic penetration time" (wow, isn't that a poetic phrase?).
I hope this at all makes sense. Do any of you have any tips on how to make her last longer or how to increase the possibily of making her orgasm again? It seems to apply to every position we've tried.