premature humiliation suggestions?

[D_Meneage Saltass]

so i have a big penis, but am very . . . let's just say "quick on the draw". luckily my gf actually has a lot of fun with this. a new thing that she likes to do is have me masturbate while she's watching and she tells me to last a certain amount of time (1 minute or 30 seconds . . . or 2 minutes if she's being evil) . . . but i though it'd be fun to come up with some other ideas instead of just to ol' stopwatch. so what are some fun/funny random things that i could try to last longer than? (example: a commercial break)

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

Not really humiliation, but your girlfriend could guide you through a session of masturbation, and by altering your stroke style and pattern, make it nearly impossible for you to come.

For starters, I have found a 10 (fast ) - 3 (slow) - 5 (fast) - 15 (slow) stroke pattern is a tough one to bust with. Of course, she may have to adjust the pattern until she's in control of your level of arousal, which should stay around 8, on a scale of 1 (soft)-10(point of no return).

• The session should last at least 20-30 min.
• Use lube.
• Ice or a towel dipped in iced water around the balls can be a nice addition.
• Your cock should be stiff, full/heavy, slightly uncomfortable (you should feel like you have to touch it) and look like a beacon before she allows you to cum

Also, tell her to watch porn and take note of the different ways men stroke their cocks - she should be able to guide you in at least 10 (bare minimum) different strokes.

Before I allow him (an ex, not my BF) to cum, I always close with a question like, "do I own your penis?" or "are you my bitch?". Just to further assert my dominance. :09: Which she does not have to do, I just have a natural inclination to tease and take control. :08:

 

[D_Meneage Saltass]

thanks so much for the answer Lady Shady! especially if lube is required, i think i'd have to adjust those numbers quite a bit . . . i must admit, with my gf teasing me and my stamina, i probably wouldn't make it through the 10 fast strokes the first time around . . . which ACTUALLY would give her quite a good laugh and me quite a red face! and YES, i think she'd enjoy me telling her i'm her bitch after that!

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

You're such a sub, lol. :09:

If you're that out of control, though, the first few sessions should focus on her taking note of your signs of arousal - like, if you have a go to stroke for ejaculation or bounce your foot when you get close. Also, until she knows the signs instinctively, she has to check in and ask "where are you" or remind that you are to stay around a 7 or 8.

Hopefully you both have a lot of fun exploring this part of your relationship.

 

[D_Meneage Saltass]

thanks again . . . i think she shares that "natural inclination to tease and take control" with you. for her (and me), i think a lot of the thrill of it is the time BEFORE that she spends teasing me, getting we working up, and just dying to stroke, knowing that when she finally lets me start it'll be over absolutely immediately. it's so quick that there's really no build up of pleasure for me, just a frantic struggle to stay in control and then the embarrassment that follows. i don't even know when it gets to that point if i HAVE an 8! i kinda go from 0 to 10 in a few seconds, which is what she finds so funny. i think she really likes that she knows she can put me through the many minutes of frustrated wanting before and the humiliation of the after effects for only a few seconds of pathetic "pleasure".

 

[D_Wastdayle Shotwadde]

You could try a delay spray like this one Stud 100 Delay Spray - For Men

 

[D_Meneage Saltass]

any other thoughts for humiliating big but "quick" guys . . . ?