Anyone have any advice? Even when I'm jerking it I get to the point of no return within 20-30 seconds without seriously laying off the stimulation - I never allow myself to come that fast and usually lay off and do this cycle for several minutes before allowing myself to come but that doesn't seem to work. It's getting embarrassing and I can only have sex outside my social circle because I don't want "word getting around." What's strange is that I had a girlfriend 3 years ago with whom this wasn't a problem. It was a first but eventually we were able to have sex for 15-20 minutes at a time (on round 1 too). Jerking it before I go out has little/no effect and trying to do it at the bar or play it off like I'm off cooking drunk food while she waits in bed and I can't get entirely hard. This is super disappointing because I've got decent size - not really for this board but for the general population - 7.5x6 or so - and I'm very athletic and have good endurance so there's no other reason I can't be great in bed. Thanks for any advice. Also - I was prescribed Tramadol for an injury which supposedly delays ejaculation but 100mg didn't have any effect on me.