Premature issues

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by thesuperstar, Jul 19, 2009.

  1. thesuperstar

    thesuperstar New Member

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    Anyone have any advice? Even when I'm jerking it I get to the point of no return within 20-30 seconds without seriously laying off the stimulation - I never allow myself to come that fast and usually lay off and do this cycle for several minutes before allowing myself to come but that doesn't seem to work.

    It's getting embarrassing and I can only have sex outside my social circle because I don't want "word getting around."

    What's strange is that I had a girlfriend 3 years ago with whom this wasn't a problem. It was a first but eventually we were able to have sex for 15-20 minutes at a time (on round 1 too).

    Jerking it before I go out has little/no effect and trying to do it at the bar or play it off like I'm off cooking drunk food while she waits in bed and I can't get entirely hard.

    This is super disappointing because I've got decent size - not really for this board but for the general population - 7.5x6 or so - and I'm very athletic and have good endurance so there's no other reason I can't be great in bed.

    Thanks for any advice.

    Also - I was prescribed Tramadol for an injury which supposedly delays ejaculation but 100mg didn't have any effect on me.
     
  2. B_MatureHungDad

    B_MatureHungDad New Member

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    Tough situation... Because I would say if your that fast I would just jerk it before, but that doesnt help. I remember randomly in my life that happen to me, Like it was literally impossible for me to even have sex. Of course that was 30 years ago in college. But for me it just eventually went away.

    Since nothing works I would just say go with it. Like just be I have a problem sometimes and I cum a little fast, but keep a smile on your face or something and say but I am good for round 2 then give a giggle and tell her you cant control it...

    Women love sex, so all they really only care about getting your nice sized dick into there vagina... so just pretend like it didnt happen and hopefully you can rock her world on round 2
     
  3. danimal32

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    Remember too, that you have a tongue and two hands. Enjoy lots of foreplay at the beginning and once you've entered your partner if it's over faster than you want it to be, go back and read my first sentence. Before you know it, you'll be ready for round two and you'll last longer than you did the first time.
     
  4. Gnothiseauton

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    As someone who has had this issue off and on in the past, I feel your frustration. Ironically getting my PA helped my endurance (as in having the ring in during sex helps, not the mere fact of having one). Now I'm not advocating getting pierced unless you actually want to, just saying it's helped me. I even went to see a urologist about it while in college. He prescribed viagra at the time, which kinda helped kinda didn't, and at $10 a pill sex became expensive! Really not much can be done unfortunately other than practice sex (not j/o), practice practice... I will agree with Mature that I have noticed an inproved trend with age too, despite still being in my late 20s.
     
  5. D_Adolfus Tallywacker

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    Take deep breath and slow breath through your abdomen .....
    Dont just look at your cock (alternatively look up or look somewhere else)....
    Do Kegel Exercise (REALLY WORKS)
    Hope your problem solve...
    Practice @ Masturbate to get into right track :)
     
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