premature?

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  1. lukewang89

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    hey guys.

    im scared that i might be a premature ejaculator. when i jack off, i come within five minutes. how bad is this? im scared im going to jeopardize my sex life. help me please.

    thanks.
     
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    you can teach yourself to last longer, but it takes discipline...
    when you jack & you feel yourself getting to the point where you're about to come, stop & squeeze your PC muscles (doing kegels will help strengthen them) until the feeling subsides...

    then continue jackin until you get close to the edge again and then stop & squeeze...

    the hardest part of this process is resisting the urge to come....

    eventually your body will learn to tolerate more stimulation and you will be able to last longer...
     
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    what are pc muscles though? and kegels?

    sorry for the questions, man. i guess i just really suck at sex.

    thanks man!
     
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    here ya go:
    PC Muscles (Pubococcygeus Muscles) - Definition of the PC Muscles

    kegels are exercises to strengthen the PC muscles...
    imagine you're taking a leak or a dump & you try to stop midstream or you try to close your anus...
    that's how you find your PC muscles...

    just google kegels for men & you'll find some exercises you can do...
     
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    thanks man! :)
     
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    I can jack off in two minutes if I'm stimulated by pictures, videos, etc or alone in bed thinking about a woman I've fucked or want to fuck. However apart from early experiments and quickies, or when we're both desperate on a one nighter, I haven't come in less than ten minutes when having sex with a woman. Some of this is control, otherwise it is down to different pressure and friction between hand and pussy.
     
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    Big End certainly has the great information the topic originator needs. It is all very true. Quickies are fun. I can still jack-off quickly, just as a quickie intercourse session can also be fun.

    It all depends on mood, stimulation, etc, etc. Enjoy life and do not worry about shooting a batch too quickly.
     
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    wow. yeah. you've got a great point there. i guess i do come earlier when i watch porn or think about sex too much. i guess i'm just scared about being wildly inconsistent. i come anywhere from two minutes to twenty and i don't know what to do.

    thanks for all the help though.
     
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    I am similar to above advice. I can j/o within 2 minutes when necessary but I also go 5 days without blowing a load, even if I have fucked three guys (and made them blow) in that time. It's all about mind power and making yourself stay the distance in my situation. But, with everything sexually, it's different for every guy. I have had a guy that blew after 2 minutes with me, who managed to last 20 minutes 4 days later.

    I don't have an answer, just don't go shittin' yourself!
     
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