I beg to differ. First, I highly discourage putting soap up your ass. The rectum is very sensitive and soap is a definite irritant. Plain water works fine. Second, I don't know about your sexual partners ChockoKitty but my partners are big enough that they go past the rectum and internal anal sphincter. A quick finger up the ass ain't gonna suffice. Nor will a "good diet".
Agreed. I ALWAYS give myself a quick cleaning with one of
these before sex.
Soaping the rectum? I wrote a "soapy finger", this probably reaches an inch inside the anus. A mild soap an inch in and around your asshole followed by rinsing is perfectly fine, if desired. Yes, it can be irritating for some, however, not many should have an issue with a mild cleanser. In fact, there are even people who add soapy enema's as part of their "play", so for many, the anus, not rectum, can tolerate soap. (I personally use
Summer's Eve wash or an organic liquid cleanser, which I also use on my minge.)
The rectum is just under a foot long, but (no pun), if your partner's are surpassing that and still believe there should be no trace of fecal matter? I guess you have to take extra measures to make certain it is "clean".
And I'm sorry, but appropriate amounts of dietary fiber and good health will ensure that you evacuate properly. The healthy rectum should be empty after you shit, therefore, if someone sticks their cock in you they will not pull out a shitty dick. I know that's TMI for some people and I'm sorry. :redface:
We do agree on one thing, the bulb is awesome. During safer sex presentations we used to give them out in a kit. Along with a great book for butt health. Can't recall what the title was, but will report back for the OP when I can.