Pressure while jacking off with others

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  1. D_Wedderelet Wonderwang

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    So me and my younger cousin have been jacking off together for about 4-5 years now. It started before he hit puberty and he wanted to see my dick and watch me jack off. He was amazed at my fat dick and said he couldn't wait to get as big as me.

    Well it didn't take too long for him to catch up, but luckily I still out rank him in the size department. I even jack it with some of his friends too and blow most of them out of the water.

    Anyways, I feel like everytime we jack it together, I am afraid that one of these days he's gonna pull down his boxers and be bigger than me and I couldn't stand that always being the older guy with the big dick. I also try to hold off cumming until he does because I don't want him to think I'm a bitch for cumming too fast.

    We are extremely close and still can't believe I do this. Does anyone else experience similar pressures.
     
  2. B_Think_Kink

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    Maybe it's time to stop the behavior then, because you have to be over 18 to post here and if you're still doing this at 18, it's time to grow up. Find a girlfriend or boyfriend?
     
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    When I was a lot younger and jacking with buds, I'd usually hold back, too. For some reason, I was worried that once I shot, they'd decide not to. I have no idea why.

    Now I still prefer waiting for them, but it's because I can do it for hours on end and rely on the other person to tell me when it's time to stop.
     
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    As I see it, you need to hopefully take this opportunity to shift your perceptions and priorities a bit. I'd say you should stop measuring you and your cousin by your cocks, and start measuring your maturity levels. Boys place stock in dick size because they usually don't place value in things besides sex. Men know that there is more to size, like how you treat your partners, or how responsible you are. If you've actually been belittling your cousin or pointing out that he has a smaller weiner than you, then you've got it coming if or when he outsizes you. Too bad you didn't foresee that dicks might keep growing into a guy's 20's! :rolleyes:

    As for the "hold-off problem", there might be three ways to deal with it. Friendly competition is one. See who can cum the fastest, and then leave the room when the competition is finished so the other guy can do his thing. Or you could simply leave the room even if you don't compete, and continue with your very busy schedule filled with many important obligations while he takes care of himself. Or you can agree beforehand that you cum together, and edge until you're both ready. If the other guy or yourself says they don't think they can cum, then just have fun and let loose! :biggrin1:
     
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    Although you are larger, your fear of him/them outgrowing you demonstrates a foolish penis size insecurity. You know other individuals exist who are larger than you by comparison and so do they. If by chance your cousin outgrows you, simply accept this fact and be content with the size that you were fated with.

    You also should cum whenever you wish, unless you are playing the soggy biscuit game:)

    Soggy biscuit - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
     
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    Yeah I use to jack off with my cousins and friends and I waited for them to finish before i cum. I dont know why, its just makes me feel better. Im bigger than some of my friends but my cousins are bigger than me.
     
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    Jacking off with "friends" is the one thing i don't understand. Males are so competitive with each other how can you fully relax and enjoy yourself when your worried about size, cumming first etc, etc? The event conflicts with the purpoes
     
  8. D_Cock_Hudson

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    I'm glad I never did this when I was younger, as the idea of being competitive when jacking suggests you're as quick as possible, and every woman I suspect prefers a man who lasts. Heard about the biscuit game and it sounded gross to me.
     
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    The biscuit game? Please do educate me in on this one?
     
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    I don't know, I never do it around others so I don't have that kind of pressure or anything.
     
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    Something I heard about years ago in connection with rugby players- all of them have to wank and cum on to a biscuit- last one to cum has to eat the biscuit and its' 'contents'.
     
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    I have jerked with guys bigger and smaller. I never cared about their size, except for the fact that looking at a really huge cock made me hotter.

    I never cared who came first. I always concentrated on my own pleasure. I played enough sports to get my competitive release. Sexually I only hold back when I am with a girl and I want to make sure she gets off first.
     
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    no offense to anyone here, but how can one call himself "99% straight" or "100% straight" and want to have anything to do with other guys' dicks?

    I've never had any desire to "jack off" with anyone but a woman watching, and I certainly wouldn't want to watch other guys, especially guys I know, do it.

    I don't get it, there's got to be some rather significant latent homosexuality there somewhere. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but let's call it for what it is.
     
  14. midlifebear

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    Well, I'm certainly not straight. And I'm an old fart, too. And I still enjoy an occasional circle jerk with like-minded friends from 40 to 65 years-old. And we jack each other off, too. It's one of the more enjoyable safe-sex type of group gropes you can engage in. But what do I know? I hang out with big-dicked Your a peein' and Arrgies. Plus, it seems among all of my friends I have the biggest flat screen TV, collection of porn, and relaxing media room.
     
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    :puke: Now i feel ill, that is nasty (in a bad way)
     
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    wehn I was a young teen....was mostly with my two cousins.
     
  17. D_Cock_Hudson

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    I always hoped the game was a made-up story and never happened, especially as one of the rugby team concerned went on to play internationally and had a good looking wife.
     
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