It is making me feel pretty emasculated. My guy friends are all like "Wtf is wrong with you do it!" but im really just not feeling it. I dont know this other chick so it is extraordinarily awkward for me.
Any other guys been in a similar situation? Because I have never actually heard of this happening outside of some poorly written sitcom.
I've been there!
I only got one hour's notice though, & I went through all the stuff you are going through. It was a shock, I hadn't done one before, didn't know the girl, was suspicious - was I being tested - had the GF done something wrong & was trying to make up for it etc...maybe she had a deal with the other girl & her BF!!!!!
Worst of all, I really didn't feel horny. You wait all your life for something like this,& suddenly you don't control a bit of it!
You're right to be a bit paranoid, as pointed out above. How often do women hand out anything, let alone sexual freebies, without some kind of payback? Men might get off fantasizing about their woman with another man (you know how your mind can stray when your nut just won't bust), but women NEVER (well almost all of them never) do.
The only, & I mean only reasons for her to positively want to do this are: fear of losing you (in which case, nice work playa!), or she's a bit bi.
My FIRST experience was awkward - it's really difficult in front of someone you care about to lose yourself in the moment. After that, I've been smugger & cooler than Snoop picking up hoes in an open topped Limo with a hot tub in the back.
Therefore, my advice is just man up & do it. Oh, & make a list of all the things that you want to mentally remember - 2 girls sucking on your dick, alternately fucking 2 peachy asses from behind, one on your head & one on your cock etc - whatever floats your boat. You never know if you'll get the opportunity again.
As for what the girl looks like - as long as she's not Godzilla or a gorilla - GAME ON! My GF was black, & her friend was porcelain white with redhair - result! (I will caveat this by saying that the GF did get very jealous at one point, but that was smoothed over).
Don't forget, it's not a threesome unless the girls get in on together too. I've never counted those, & you'll lose manpoints from all of your friends.
Whether or not this is a serious offer, or a bluff - you will be seen as a pussy by her if you at least don't say, OK, I'll do it for you.:wink:
You really have nothing to lose! I'd say that your relationship isn't going to last anyway, & really, you need to do these things just to get them out of the way when the opportunity arises.
Don't think, DO! Then tell us how it went! Good luck!:biggrin1: