i have been out as bi to my family for almost a year now and my mom is still in denial simply cuz she is a die hard catholic. but that's not the point of this thread. i need really good advice. i am 19 asian in edmonton canada. and i am a gay sex virgin. i have never fucked or been fucked and i am getting to a point where porn just really doesn't do it for me sexually and intimately. come to think of it, porn was never really intimate haha. point is, i really want a boyfriend to have a romantic relationship with and fool around and take care of me and share the same love i would have for him and have that love returned to me. i am thinking of going to my first gay club next week and i don't know if it's smart to try and find a boyfriend in a club. this city is a little more accepting of homosexuals compared to my old town but how do i ask a guy out if it is hard to randomly ask if he is gay? my gaydar might be a little off as i often ask straight guys if they are gay and my basis is how well they are dressed. i am just confused out of my mind. i need help, how do i find a guy to date and where do i find him? anyone please!!!!!!