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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by dominic1984, Jun 15, 2008.

  1. dominic1984

    dominic1984 New Member

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    Need some advice dudes! Was fuckin my virgin boyfriend the other nite. He seemed to be enjoyin it a lot until.....i pulled out and some shit came outta his ass. This never happened 2 me b4 but i guess it's a risk u take. I was cool about it cuz i like him so so much but he freaked and broke up with me. Things were ace up until then. Makes me pretty sad. so...

    1) has it ever happened 2 u guys?
    2) how did u react?
    3) did u have anal again?
    4) what else can i do to make him know it was ok?

    Thanx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  2. D_Gunther Snotpole

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    Wow. And this is your first post.
     
  3. dominic1984

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    :frown1:lol yea. sorry if it's too graphic 4 u but i need the advice.
     
  4. Rommette

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    ewwww....wouldnt know but it has never happened to my gay friends. I have a gay guy friend who is very open with me and gave me details on his first anal fuck (until then he only did oral) and there was no mention of shit coming out. Maybe he should have just went to the bathroom first before u fucked him. I always make sure my bladder isn't full before i have sex. Its difficult for it to feel good if i gotta take a piss.
     
  5. Rommette

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    hope u get luck from others with your dilema!
     
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    rommette your beautiful!!

    and dude, with the shit thing. he just messed up and probably needed to go bathroom firstly. mistakes are there to make and learn from i guess. im straight so no idea how the whole taking anal works but doesnt sound normal to me. maybe just an accident?
     
  7. Meniscus

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    Yes, it's a risk that you take. I'm glad that you were cool about it. Dan Savage has talked about this in his "Savage Love" advice column. If you're having anal sex, you will inevitably come across some fecal matter...sometimes a little, sometimes a lot. Simply put, it comes with the territory. If you want to enjoy anal sex, you've got to accept that this is going to happen once in a while and be prepared to deal with it. As someone once said to me, "that's why you cover the sheets with an old towel."

    I don't have time to go looking for it, but there's a long-running thread on here somewhere about "how to have anal sex." A few weeks ago someone posted a link to a site that had lots of useful "how to" advice for bottoms including a) how to check if you are clean and b) how to clean yourself out if you are not.

    Unfortunately, for some people it's not as simple as cleaning yourself out. Even if the rectum is clean, there's a whole colon potential fully of shit right above it. Depending on how long it's been since the bottom ate, the colon probably has something in it, unless he's been fasting or on a liquid diet. My theory is that for some men, stimulation of the anus causes the bowels to move, so things start off fine and then you end up with a mess. I haven't found a solution to that yet. It may just be that some men are ill-suited to being bottoms.

    As for how to get him back...I don't know. I'm not very good at relationships. Maybe you should just talk to him and let him know that you thought things were really going well and that you still want to be with him. Maybe if you help him overcome his embarrassment about this incident he'll come around. Good luck.
     
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    YEP, without being literal, SHIT happens! :p
    IT'S normal the first times without being prepared. YOU [or him; or both...] should do an anal cleaning. ENEMA is good, so YOU can clean your intestines and rectum area.

    AFTER doing an enema [preferably with WARM water] you should wait at least 45 minutes to an hour before going IN!

    THIS way nothing will come out of it, apart from PLEASURE! :D
     
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  10. musclebare9

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    And this is why I am straight. :684::yuck:
     
  11. Jughead

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    I'm with ya on that. I never have been able to imagine looking at a guys asshole and thinking "Yeah, I gotta have that!"
     
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    enema enema enema enema enema enema
     
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    No big deal, just hit the shower
     
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    He should buy a water bottle douche/ enema kit. You can buy them at any WAL-MART. There are instructions that come with every kit. Have him learn to use it properly.

    Have him use it before any anal sex. And you will not have to worry about any surprises.
     
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    Just call him up and chat with him, try and see what his opinion on it was and just be calm about it. It probably freaked him right out and embarrassed him as well. Just assure him that it's normal and that you can work around it.
     
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