Read this thread for proof that women are often tormented by men about their appearance as adults as well.:frown1: This is why many of us are so insecure in spit of our percieved hotness.
...the same could be said about guys with sub-anaconda dicks and websites like this. In the case of women's beauty as well, the notion that you are lacking in some God-given endowment be it nice floppy boobies, birth-girth dicks and/or just plain good looks is more an issue of society and media.
However, no one MAKES women buy beauty magazines... I mean I go into a magazine store.. and I see guys reading magazines about cars, health, media, photography, computers, games, art, nekid women (well, looking at the pictures), and fashion. meanwhile I see women just looking at magaziens about beauty aids and styling. I don't see them reading about computer magazines, cars, media, art, photography... I just see this insatiable need for them to rank themselves against other women in the area of looks.. not even smarts.
Culturally, too, women seemed raised to concern themselves soley with their appearance, and less on their 'content" or character. I've notice that european women tend to be more balanced in that when I speak to them, we are more like equals. Here in the states, alot of women gauge their self importance on their looks. And its a sad thing to see when they fade. So many women here refuse to have freckles, go do rediculas surguries... and don't blame it just on the guys. Many of you women do this to yourself.
I mean seriously, if you spent far less time being an attention whore and focus on building your own self confidence so that what some shallow guy thinks become irrelevant, you would be much better off. I mean looking at some of the women here with the mixed messages: I mean you have some that post like tens or hundreds of photos of themselves with their tits hanging out and their pussies spread basically in public here, and then you get a paragraph of a signature stating all of the different ways you CAN'T contact them.
and then comes your own shit decision making... like giving some hot guy carte blanche on how they treat you "because he's hot". I'll tell you something, "because he's hot" he's got ALL his options open... meaning that chances are that he has a rolling rolladex of chicks looking to chop on his knob. Its just reality. So don't work up a pretty piece of fiction in your head to convince you that you're the only one in his life.
Show some confidence, show some independance.. you broads wanted it.. so take it. You know the kind of balls it takes for an average joe to talk to some of you monsters in a bar? You're all trotting around with impenetrable ice. No wonder it takes a shameless playa to penetrate that. Recently Lee_M talked about how some pencil dicked dude got into her pants after lying about having and Gangus Shlong... well hello!! why even give a tactless shit like that the time of day?
Sorry, ladies, but you get NO SYMPATHY from this average joe. I've had female managers that think with their respective "dicks" just like any man in their position... they turned their departments into a cronie sorority, while they hired men based upon their looks. Same shit, different sex. same reason: insecurities.
So you want to make a difference? raise your daughters differently.. have them play with toys that engage their intelect like building toys. Let them interact with boys as equals in sports and the like. Discourage your girls from just having just a circle of "girlfirends", where they just suffer from "analysis pararlysis" regarding men instead of engaging in real life activities with boys and men. Don't make them feel like their bodies are dirty, and that they should treat it with the proper reverance, and how modesty will always surpass gaudiness.
perhaps then, there will be less self victimizing monsters that I meet in bars, and instead more women who are confident with their big hips and little boobs, and who view working out as a means to their own inner self peace and health rather than trying to get a body that is genetically impossible. And if some hot guys wants some 24" waist with a set of DD, well then just move on to the next guy inteadof trying to please Mr. Mission Impossible...