pretty women the most insecure?

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...the same could be said about guys with sub-anaconda dicks and websites like this.

No one MAKES you come here. (your words)

"However, no one MAKES women buy beauty magazines...


. . . "attention whore" .

" So don't work up a pretty piece of fiction in your head to convince you that you're the only one in his life.". . .

"You broads wanted it.. so take it."

. . average joe to talk to some of you monsters in a bar? "


" You're all trotting around with impenetrable ice."

"I've had female managers that think with their respective "dicks". . .


"self victimizing monsters that I meet in bars"


And to think a guy like you is having trouble meeting women??? Now there's a mystery for the ages.
 

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And to think a guy like you is having trouble meeting women??? Now there's a mystery for the ages.


I was gearing up for a rant until I checked his post and thread history. He has a slight tendency towards misogyny.:mad:

CAPSLOCK is just another small dicked wonder getting all pissy because he isn't getting any...not even from the allegedly unattractive and overweight women. ROTFLMAO
 

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I was gearing up for a rant until I checked his post and thread history. He has a slight tendency towards misogyny.:mad:

CAPSLOCK is just another small dicked wonder getting all pissy because he isn't getting any...not even from the allegedly unattractive and overweight women. ROTFLMAO

At the risk of getting my ass kicked, I'd say that THIS statement is a case of the pot calling the kettle black. The language used in the quote above is even more insulting than Capslock's statements were.
 

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At the risk of getting my ass kicked, I'd say that THIS statement is a case of the pot calling the kettle black. The language used in the quote above is even more insulting than Capslock's statements were.


Bless your heart, Precious. That's nice!
:fu:
 

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You know for me insecurity was not a matter of being being pretty or not, it was just a matter of maturing and growing older.

Every year I grow older, the more comfortable I feel in my skin and with my body and personailty. I am more confident around men ( I actually was always fairly confident around men) , I enjoy my curves and I like who I am as a woman.

....... age has given me a real appreciation of myself and also a more relaxed attitude to weight gain, and wrinkles etc.

I enjoy growing older, I hope to do it gracefully.

xx
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Yeah, he's ranting, but deep down he has a point. Many women are really REALLY mean to men.


Oh, I love men. Misogynists? No. They suck.

Yes, I agree that it's true that some women are mean to men. But that doesn't excuse his calling women monstrous, ice whore, attention slut broads with dicks, or whatever he said.

Women should be nice to men. And the men (not all men) who are responsible for the overwhelming majority of assault, murders, war, rape, torture, incest, sex abuse, sexualized murder, human trafficking and genocide should stop right now.
 

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Oh, I love men. Misogynists? No. They suck.

Yes, I agree that it's true that some women are mean to men. But that doesn't excuse his calling women monstrous, ice whore, attention slut, broads with dicks, or whatever he said.

Women should be nice to men. And the men (not all men) who are responsible for the overwhelming majority of assault, murders, war, rape, torture, incest, sex abuse, sexualized murder, human trafficking and genocide should stop right now.

I concur.
 

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You know for me insecurity was not a matter of being being pretty or not, it was just a matter of maturing and growing older.

Every year I grow older, the more comfortable I feel in my skin and with my body and personailty. I am more confident around men ( I actually was always fairly confident around men) , I enjoy my curves and I like who I am as a woman.

....... age has given me a real appreciation of myself and also a more relaxed attitude to weight gain, and wrinkles etc.

I enjoy growing older, I hope to do it gracefully.

xx
Honey

I don't mean this to be inflammatory in any way, but I have one question.
You are very attractive, and if you weren't, would this change the way you see yourself? Just like all these guys here who say similar things, if they weren't handsome and well endowed, would they feel differently? In other words, is it easier to say these things don't bother you, when you aren't in that situation?

I've had low self esteem most, if not all, of my life. I admit that openly.
I don't look like Burns1de, Andyo, No Strings, or Scared Little Boy. There are many other hot guys here too, those just came to mind. I'm not hung like they are either. I have no confidence around women. I don't even have confidence around men in a social setting. The only confidence I have is when it comes to working on stuff. If I see machinery in distress, I'll jump right on it. I usually just avoid social situations, if possible.

I always felt that IF I was really good looking and well endowed, that I would have confidence. Maybe I'm wrong. Just curious about this.
 

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Viking - Firstly, I am attractive because I try to be, if I took no care of myself I am sure I would be as plain as they come. I am tall and fairy european looking - certainly not the epitome of ideal beauty.

I like looking good, I do my hair and nails I watch what I eat and kinda work out to stay semi in shape, I wear some make up and I am interested in fashion - Take all that away from me and I am just an average soccer mum with cellulite and greying hair.

I think confident people, are not "perfect" or even "ideal", but make the best of what they have, and are happy with their strengths ( whatever they may be)

I think physical good looks can be obtained by almost anyone ( make overs and even mini make overs can bring startling results to many)

Self esteem and self confidence is the crux of most peoples issues. I think most of these are childhood related and VERY difficult to overcome.

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I don't mean this to be inflammatory in any way, but I have one question.

You are very attractive, and if you weren't, would this change the way you see yourself? Just like all these guys here who say similar things, if they weren't handsome and well endowed, would they feel differently? In other words, is it easier to say these things don't bother you, when you aren't in that situation?

I always felt that IF I was really good looking and well endowed, that I would have confidence. Maybe I'm wrong. Just curious about this.

I am often an anomaly; and have always had low self-esteem inspite of my perpetual prettiness. :smile:
 

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Viking - Firstly, I am attractive because I try to be, if I took no care of myself I am sure I would be as plain as they come. I am tall and fairy european looking - certainly not the epitome of ideal beauty.

What's wrong with tall and European? I don't have a problem with that.

I like looking good, I do my hair and nails I watch what I eat and kinda work out to stay semi in shape, I wear some make up and I am interested in fashion - Take all that away from me and I am just an average soccer mum with cellulite and greying hair.

That's hard for me to believe. You look hot to me!

I think confident people, are not "perfect" or even "ideal", but make the best of what they have, and are happy with their strengths ( whatever they may be)

I just have great difficulty in seeing my strenghts. If I really do have any.


I think physical good looks can be obtained by almost anyone ( make overs and even mini make overs can bring startling results to many)

I can't quite agree with that. I don't think a make over would help me any.

Self esteem and self confidence is the crux of most peoples issues. I think most of these are childhood related and VERY difficult to overcome.

Probably so, but what's a guy to do?
 

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Oh, I love men. Misogynists? No. They suck.

Yes, I agree that it's true that some women are mean to men. But that doesn't excuse his calling women monstrous, ice whore, attention slut broads with dicks, or whatever he said.

Women should be nice to men. And the men (not all men) who are responsible for the overwhelming majority of assault, murders, war, rape, torture, incest, sex abuse, sexualized murder, human trafficking and genocide should stop right now.

Hello Burning Venus -- hey, I don't disagree with you, but we mustn't forget that the assholes who do those things form a fraction of humanity.

- - - - -

Meanwhile, back at the ranch, the issue of this thread is not mysogany or criminal activity. The issue is the insecurity of pretty women.

In thinking about this topic some more, it occurs to me that this insecurity might not be the result of THIS society...

Back in the day, when women were chattel and property, looks were HUGELY important. This only started changing a hundred years ago, and women now have all sorts of options open to them. Oddly enough, divorce rates are lower among educated women who wait until later in life to marry. Methinks perhaps that these women are happier about themselves, and aren't as obsessed with their looks.

BUT, the pressure still lingers and probably won't ever disappear... well, not for as long as men are still agonizing over the size of their cocks.

:wink:
 

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I don't look like Burns1de, Andyo, No Strings, or Scared Little Boy. There are many other hot guys here too, those just came to mind. I'm not hung like they are either.

Thanks for the compliment, but I'm definitely not hung. Any attractiveness I possess is relative, and nothing particularly noteworthy. :rolleyes:

Viking - Firstly, I am attractive because I try to be, if I took no care of myself I am sure I would be as plain as they come. I am tall and fairy european looking - certainly not the epitome of ideal beauty.

I like looking good, I do my hair and nails I watch what I eat and kinda work out to stay semi in shape, I wear some make up and I am interested in fashion - Take all that away from me and I am just an average soccer mum with cellulite and greying hair.

I think confident people, are not "perfect" or even "ideal", but make the best of what they have, and are happy with their strengths ( whatever they may be)

I think physical good looks can be obtained by almost anyone ( make overs and even mini make overs can bring startling results to many)

Self esteem and self confidence is the crux of most peoples issues. I think most of these are childhood related and VERY difficult to overcome.

I agree with Honey on these points. :smile: (Apart form tall and European looking not being ideal beauty. :eek:)


Viking1 I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you act/fake/pretend to be confident, it turns into real confidence over time, because to any onlookers they don't realise it's just an act. It builds and grows and snowballs until you become a confident person. Like learning to swim, the first stroke is the hardest.
 

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I am often an anomaly; and have always had low self-esteem inspite of my perpetual prettiness. :smile:


I am sorry to hear that. I wouldn't wish low self esteem on anyone. I'm kind of surprised. You seem to have plenty of confidence on here. Also, I see no reason for you to have low self esteem.
 

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Thanks for the compliment, but I'm definitely not hung. Any attractiveness I possess is relative, and nothing particularly noteworthy. :rolleyes:

That is, I suppose, objective. However I don't agree, and I'll trade you looks, and endowment any time you want to.



I agree with Honey on these points. :smile: (Apart form tall and European looking not being ideal beauty. :eek:)

Now, that I do agree with. She is very attractive, isn't she!


Viking1 I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you act/fake/pretend to be confident, it turns into real confidence over time, because to any onlookers they don't realise it's just an act. It builds and grows and snowballs until you become a confident person. Like learning to swim, the first stroke is the hardest.

Maybe, but I just can't seem to do that. I just feel false when I'm not acting as I really am. I'm also not sure any woman would want me, confident or not.
 

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Thanks for the compliment, but I'm definitely not hung. Any attractiveness I possess is relative, and nothing particularly noteworthy. :rolleyes:



I agree with Honey on these points. :smile: (Apart form tall and European looking not being ideal beauty. :eek:)


Viking1 I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you act/fake/pretend to be confident, it turns into real confidence over time, because to any onlookers they don't realise it's just an act. It builds and grows and snowballs until you become a confident person. Like learning to swim, the first stroke is the hardest.

Viking1,

Listen to Nostrings. Fake it until you make it. It can only come from inside you. No one can do it but you. Stop putting yourself down, its not appealing. It's a bad habit.

Sit up straight. Walk tall. Strut like a Viking. You gave yourself a powerful name -- that came from the confidence deep inside you.
The way you hold your body can effect your mental state. Read any of Tony Robbins 's books. He explains neurolinguistic programing (NLP) better than anyone.
 

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Sigh. Just because you were emotionally abused for so long is no need to repeat the offense on others. If you work on being the mate you would like to meet, maybe your posts wouldn't be so bitter.


Excuse me, but you are cruising down the wrong road. I strongly suggest that you check yourself, before you wreck yourself hotmilf! :mad:

You've been here 32 days, so I'm guessing you haven't read my over 5,200 posts. If you had you would know that 98% of my posts aren't bitter. The maybe 2% which apparently sound bitter to you only come out when I feel I have been insulted and/or attacked. At that point I come out swinging. And DON'T even think about telling me how I should feel. :mad:
 

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I am sorry to hear that. I wouldn't wish low self esteem on anyone. I'm kind of surprised. You seem to have plenty of confidence on here. One can be anything on the internet. :redface: Also, I see no reason for you to have low self esteem. Right back at you babe. :smile: