The only thing I see is that she said to "kiss my black ass", but considering that she is Black, how can that be construed as racist? Am I missing something?
I think it was the "White Cracker" (can't recall if others)
Mods, I know you do a great job here, and everything is discussed thoroughly, but "Permanent"??
On a site like this, with some that could be very sensitive, I can understnd the desire to prevent things from getting outta hand, but I have to say that unless I'm missing other more serious violations (God knows I can do that :redface
, I have to say that it is a bit harsh.
I know "P" was a very strong willed person and didn't hold much back. That's actually one of the traits that drew me towards her. We have pm'ed back and forth on items that we disagreed with each other on, and she was not afraid to speak her mind, but also not afraid to receive the same.
It seems a bit over sensitive. I know I've mentioned it before, but I spent most of my Jr High and High School years being 1 of 2 white families in an all black neighborhood. Hell, it was a big enough area, it was more like a community. Slang names that many would consider racist (yes, even the "N" word) were thrown around constantly. I took how she was saying that in that manner.
I know that "here" it's a double edged sword. And I know that it must be controlled. However, would it be possible to reconsider it being temporary?