I'm sure this has been asked before but i couldn't find it. I just started having sex this year. I lost it to my current girlfriend. I thought just by pop culture references that lasting a long time came with a lot of sex and that virgins blasted immediately. Well, the first time I never came because my girlfriend couldn't take it anymore she said she must have cum like 5 times. I have come on a couple of occasions but it still took a while and I had to be completely selfish in order for me to get there. My girlfriend feels like its her fault and I think that if this keeps up she may get frustrated anybody know what may help me get off in a reasonable amount of time.