Problem: lover with small vagina

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  1. MoociMan

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    I have had three girlfriends and a couple onenightstands with nandom girls. Some have been big, some have been tight, some have been good sex others bad, but nothing out of the ordinary, and my cock has usually been doing good and no problems have been present (to my knowledge). This changed yesterday. I met a sweet woman, a very small one physically. When we were about to have sex I realized that her pussy looked quite small, and I soon found out it actually was.

    My penis isn't freakish. 20.5-21cm long when BPEL, and maybe 19cm NBP. Girth is fairly boring, actually, with maybe 14.5cm at most. Now, this girl would get my penis up above her bellybutton, and she could problably have four hands on my dick. When I penetrate her, almost have of my penis is still out when I buttom her, and it seems to hurt her. So, what to do? Have anyone here been with a very small girl and made it function? I told her to tell me if anything hurt, and she is like "yeah, I will", but then she act like she is enjoying it. I know she isn't, since afterwards when I pulled out, there was blood on my penis. I asked her if it hurt or if she just entered her period during sex, and she pointed out an area around her stomach as being in pain. What am I going to do? I really like her, I try to take it slow when we have sex, she is well lubed when I enters etc. It there certain angles that are better than others? And how can I pound or make temposhifts without risking to hurt her? This is a very unusual situation for me as she is the first girl to really not fit my dick.
     
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    Either you ease into it becuse most girls stretch out after a while when they like it.

    You could use tones of lube so there is no friction she will like that

    Or she just has a small pussy which is common with small girls
     
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    My girth is good for her. It doesn't hurt her, but just fills her out good. I guess it is more the length that is a problem here. I did ease a lot. And she was wet. I first licked her for a while, kissed her body etc., and then slowly inserted my penis a little at a time and mostly the sex was slow. I always try to guide by how the girl reacts, and I try to discriminate between BS and true reactions. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between a gasp of joy and of pain, and often the joy is right before or close to dangerous stuff.

    Another problem is that we have some languagebarriers and cultural differences, so it is hard to really make sure that she understands everything I ask her. She is also a bit shy. Oh, girls sex and cocks, why are you so mysterious?!?
     
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    Foreplay. Foreplay. Oh yea, more foreplay. The more relaxed and aroused she gets, the wetter she gets. The wetter she gets, the easier it is for you to get in and outta there. Plus, the more likely she will either not notice the pain as sharply or she will have 'expanded' internally to better suit ya needs. Don't forget foreplay. In all of its glory.

    I once had to go down on a girl and finger her for a good hour and a half if not two hours before even the head of my dick could squeeze in. Needless to say, that only made me want to get in more. Finally, after more oral and fingering, I got in - though not balls deep - felt real good but when I pulled out to change positions the feeling of cool air stung my dick cuz I had irritated the skin on it. I put sum chap-stick on it due to lack of lube, ate her out some more and got right back in there. So it works - eat her out for hours ;)
     
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    Haha:) Will try. Might report back if nothing or all changes.
     
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    Strange, in my experience small girls are large down there, while Amazons tend to be tight. Maybe short women have opportunities with men of all heights, where tall ones are limited to even taller guys by custom?
     
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    *reads thread, responds accordingly*

    if you really loved her, you would consider penis reduction :smile:

    has she been to her obygn? a full pelvic and STI screening will clear her for any medical ook making sex uncomfortable. you should ask her if she's experienced the same pain with other dudes.

    actually...abdominal crapping from sex is a result of banging her cervix/neck of the uterus. or from pounding the douglas pouch and irritating nerve bundles tucked away there, between the vaginal canal and the bumhole. so length is be your problem.

    *ponders* there isn't much you can do, other than restricting your depth. there are products on the marker, kinda act like a penis bumper. usually a silicone donut ya slip over your peen like a cock ring. there are position that will prevent you from going to deep.. spoon is an awesome position for couples with length/depth incompatibilities. really any position where she can control the depth, either with her bum or leg placement.

    how serious are you two? cuz if this is just casual, or fun, or a lark... might be best to go on to a bigger pasture.


    allowing a moment of LPSG cynicism -ya penis ain't anywhere near her bellybutton.. even if you peen reaches up to her belly button when you lay it on her stomach. this is true facts.

    *ya do know ya post sounds like bad porn... a shy, petite, non-english speaking woman.. massive peened dude...*

    to random "small chicks are bucket snatched" you are stupid. and watch too much porn.
     
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    Let's hear it for ms. Lee. Whenever we run away with our imaginations, she's always there to bring us back to reality. God bless her ;)
     
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    don't make me boobeh smother you.. i'd done it before, i am willing to smother again *mock grrr*

    *eta* my only snark was on petite = tardis snatch.

    for true, seems like i am being a meanie pants, what with the fantasy pin pricking.. there are men on LPSG convinced you could park a mini-cooper inside a vagina if you just had enough lube.

    yes, foreplay is the awesome *gimme,gimme,gimme* there is a limitation of how much a woman can take. and that's it. more hurts. more hurts will lead to more issues.
     
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    We agree on so much. Yet, we disagree on just as much. This would be great in the real world. Not so much fun on here - especially when I'm offering rebuttals from the comfort and inconvenience of my EVO phone. We should discuss this further over some tea and crackers tho.

    - I'm not big on boobs but I have a feeling that if I play my cards right, there will be a smothering. Haha
     
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    Thank you for the advice.

    To mickylee@ It is just casual, but I am very attracted to her and wouldn't want to move on. As for my size vs. hers - I wasn't trying to brag. As I said, I never experienced any problems with any other girl. And, yes, my penis does reach her bellybutton. Mostly due to her being a miniature human. Will take pics if she let me:)
     
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    or, you could just tell me how tall she is :smile:

    i get that your penis, when laid on top of her pubic mound, lower abdomen reaches her belly button. heaps of boys have posted similar pictures. cuz boys seem to really like those pictures.. and the measurement is a good way to illustrate size, of the tiny lady and ya penis.

    please don't post pictures of her on my account. a woman, even one you are just very attracted to and have no serious emotional connection to, deserves better treatment *more respect* than she'll receive on LPSG.

    kness, no bragging intended in ya post.

    she is a tiny lady. and you, even on ya low end estimation, are a big boy. she's only got so much room to accommodate you, and you're only gonna get so deep. the penetration reducing donut and depth conscious positions are gonna be the only solution.

    bodies are bodies, modification/adaption is possible to a certain extent. not enough to make balls deep happen without massive discomfort/injury for her. she's not gonna get excited enough, stretched enough, lubed enough.. is just not gonna happen.

    if ya are content with physical limitations. if ya are willing to except her limits. then you is a good dude.

    but, if ya just gonna keep trying to get it in deeper, keep hurting her, ya might be a bit of dick.

    ya know, ya could save yaself some stress by overcoming the language thing. whatever language she is speaks, you need to learn enough to communicate the problem/concerns with her. she might be okay with some ouch, just needing you to slow down sometimes, or hold back sometimes.
     
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    I wont post pictures of her if she doesn't allow it, though I made it sound like that. And I only had sex with her once and would never ever do anything hurtful to her just to please myself. I found out she was in pain afterwards, and I had interrupted the intercourse many times to make sure it didn't hurt (since I could feel that she was tighter than the other girls I have been with). But anyways, I will have to get to know her a little better before she opens up and gets communicative I guess. We can speak, since she can speak two languages I know. But there are some cultural differences that makes it hard to read her. For instance I am not sure how she sees sex and relationships, and that is, of course, very important to know. We have talked afterwards and she has expressed a wish to see me again, so I guess the problems can and will be solved.

    Thank you for your response, btw. And you seem like a good person. Very concerned with others. That is a good and important quality IMO.

    Will update and let you all know how the next time goes. If the sex doesn't work out, then I will have to find out if there is enough "substance" or potential in our relation to make up for it, which there might be.
     
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