Hey guys. I am a 21 year old guy. I lost my virginity about a month ago. needless to say I have been jerking off my whole life. 2-3 times a day, 1000 times a year, for like 6 or 7 years now. thats about 6000+ jerk offs!!!! when fooling around with my girl, sometimes I have a hard time getting hard and staying hard. I dont know if its because im nervous as im (was) a virgin and she doesnt know it. (I did very good for my first few times... she believed im experienced so...) sometimes even while fucking I will go from rock hard, to just firm/half soft!!! :frown1: heres another problem, I have a foot fetish!!! for years I have jerked off to foot porn lol!!! I also read something about jerking off in the fetal position can make guys get problems jerking off/cumming when theyre on their backs or standing or whatever. tits, ass, pussy, dirty talk, all that stuff turns me on a little bit, but sometimes its not enough and I find myself thinking of cute feet in order to try to get hard so we can fuck, but sometimes that doesnt work and it wont get hard, or it wont stay hard. so whats wrong with me?! I am 21. I should be able to get rock hard and stay rock hard for an hour should I? is it because im subconsciously nervous and inexperienced? is it because my foot fetish it way too strong? is it all the fetal position jerking off I have done? thanks guys. hope you can help clear up some confusion!!!!