my bf is a grad student, his living situation is bad (he doesn't have money now as he is in school so he lives in a room with 3 other guys) and he often stressed about his hw because he is unable to deal w the stress. i feel bad for him for the above three reasons, so i often do household chores for him when i go to his apartment. afterwards, he thanks me. but i often think he doesn't thank me enough. i am 23 years old (he is 22) but i have a very bad back from sports injury right now so it takes a lot from me to do his household chores. when i come home i physically cant move from the effort. but i also feel bad if he lives at a dirty, unwelcoming place. in the end, i end up resentful towards him because i feel like he didn't thank me enough (when i reality is i dont tell him how hard it was for me to do those chores, but if i told him he'd tell me not to do the chores and unless he does it themselves which i cannot see happening me and him are just ganna have to endure a disgusting room) or i feel like he doesn't give me enough attention in repayment for the chores i did. is it wrong in my head to think i should be getting repayment for the chores? should i be just doing it out of the goodness of my heart and not expect anything in return?
i know it mite be weird to post this on lpsg as this isn't a penis question. but im a regular member here and i love the ppl here. u guys give great advice. i hope u will help me w this one as well. well the first reason that got me on this site is he has a lp, so
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i know it mite be weird to post this on lpsg as this isn't a penis question. but im a regular member here and i love the ppl here. u guys give great advice. i hope u will help me w this one as well. well the first reason that got me on this site is he has a lp, so
anyhow help me ya'll