Sorry I haven't been around in a while...I got bored. First off: this isn't general "I like straight guys" type of thread. I'm talking about specifics. I like this guy. He's straight, but he's also dealing with a lot of problems emotionally. Basically, I'm the only person in his life showing him positive vibes. His girlfriend sucks, his family constantly berates him and he's just not understood...and I do understand him. My problem is am I confusing his attachment to me as his draw to my positive vibe, or is he possibly "curious?" I'll give a an example of my confusion: We hang out quite often, and when we go to the mall, he almost instinctively takes on the "boyfriend" roll. He'll carry my bag(s) and be generally like a boyfriend despite the fact that he already has a girlfriend and he's straight. Pretty much all of my other straight male friends DON'T act this way when we hang out. So, it's an obvious difference. Another example: He'll call me at random times throughout the day, just to see how I'm doing. Caring? Yeah, but it's also textbook boyfriend behavior. Again, I've never had a guy who wasn't interested in me do these things. It's throwing me off because I would love for him to actually mean everything that he's doing, but I just can't tell. Should I just decide to let him be how he wants to be and enjoy this attention from a straight guy, or try to analyze him and figure out if there's something more to our relationship? EDIT: I don't know what the hell I was writing in the title. Sorry.