Jason01: Ok...I am new here, and to the whole idea of me being "endowed". I don't think that I am, but according to my ex, I am. I am 7.25" x 6". I don't think it is big, but by all of the studies that I find, I am in the top 80%(or so). Anyways, I have a question, and I have nobody really that can relate. Me and my ex had been dating for 3 years, and we never had sex very much(maybe once every month or 2), and we would screw around(oral/foreplay)once every few weeks. The problems started when I figured out how to give her orgasms(she was my first). While I would spend all the time she needed to get her off, she would do virtually nothing for me. If we had sex, we spent ~1 hour in foreplay, before she would let me in, and then that would only last 2-4 min., before she told me that I was hurting her. After reading some on here allready, I think that the term that would be used for us would be "sexually incompatible". She could not provide for me, and it slowly ate away at me, until I became down right mean. We are still friends, and we talk, and she agrees that the sex was probably part of the downfall of the relationship. Now, at work, I have a very close friend, who is a woman(same age as me), and we have been discussing my relationship with my ex for many months now. It took me a while to get the nerve to ask her(person at work) if there is a too big, or if my ex was full of it. She had no idea. I have tried chat rooms, but only got crap. Is this really possible? Any advice for future relationships that this may arise in?