- Chip,
So, I've recently run in to problems with one of my friends. I assume he's just embaressed or jealous but I'm not sure.
It all started out last summer, when I went to the beach with some of my female friends. It was kind of a spur of the moment kind of thing so none of us had bathing suits, and of course, as we were all a bunch of naughty highschool students this lead to skinny dipping. Now, some how I managed to stay soft through this ordeal so there were no comments on my size. But on another visit to the beach (this one carefully planned by the same girls) I was sort of ... tricked into getting hard, because they really wanted to know about my size. Winter came, and these beach visits ended. After a long winter we're planning another visit, but there's one small problem. One of the girls has picked up a boy from or group of friends, and he's heard about my size (one of the girls in the group is about of a loud mouth) and he doesn't want to go ANYWHERE with us (when I say us, I mean when I'm in the group even though his been skinny-dipping with the girls before) because he thinks it's all going to lead to the beach or something. And, according to his ex-girlfriend he's rather small, so I think this must be the contributing factor.
Basically what I'm asking is, is there anything I could say to make him comfortable to go with us?
It all started out last summer, when I went to the beach with some of my female friends. It was kind of a spur of the moment kind of thing so none of us had bathing suits, and of course, as we were all a bunch of naughty highschool students this lead to skinny dipping. Now, some how I managed to stay soft through this ordeal so there were no comments on my size. But on another visit to the beach (this one carefully planned by the same girls) I was sort of ... tricked into getting hard, because they really wanted to know about my size. Winter came, and these beach visits ended. After a long winter we're planning another visit, but there's one small problem. One of the girls has picked up a boy from or group of friends, and he's heard about my size (one of the girls in the group is about of a loud mouth) and he doesn't want to go ANYWHERE with us (when I say us, I mean when I'm in the group even though his been skinny-dipping with the girls before) because he thinks it's all going to lead to the beach or something. And, according to his ex-girlfriend he's rather small, so I think this must be the contributing factor.
Basically what I'm asking is, is there anything I could say to make him comfortable to go with us?