Problem with girlfriend,

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by dude87, Aug 24, 2006.

  1. dude87

    dude87 New Member

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    Hi,

    I am a 18 year old student from holland,
    My penis size is 24,2cm

    This size is a problem for my girlfriend.
    It hurts when we have sex and she doesn't like it.

    What should i do?

    Find a other girlfriend?
    Or are there other things i can do.

    Hope you guys/girls can help me

    Kisses
     
  2. jeff black

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    You are going to have to look around the site more, to find some definete answers. I am betting that you are rushing sex, not giving her enough foreplay, or not using enough lube. If you are a big boy... chances are you need to slow down, adn really work at it with her. She will come around over time.
     
  3. Gisella

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    Hey Dude

    Welcome...

    Well, I think you are a 9"..., my bf is the same lenght as you and yes it was difficult for me in the beggining too bcause cervix hitting pain...but we worked on it and now its great!

    As JeffBlack suggested, search on the board bcause there are a lot of posts about this situation.

    Best wishes for both of you.
     
  4. SurferGirlCA

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    dude 87, well at least you've come to the right place. As jeff black and Gisella mentioned, there's a lot of information you should find useful here (check the Sex With A Large Penis forum especially). Meanwhile, just be considerate with her and make her feel safe with you and make sure she knows that you only want to give her pleasure. A little understanding can go a long way in helping her relax and then you just have to start slowly and see what does or doesn't work. Good luck!
     
  5. nineplus

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    Dude87; I too am just over 24cm and almost 18cm around. I had a similar experience. A girl I had been after for awhile finally gave in after learning of my endowment through the grapevine. We spent seven hours one night in very hot, throbbing, passionate sex. She said at the time that it was incredible. But the next day, when I called her, she said she was sore and wouldn't see me. When I did get to see her again, she said I was too big, and things went down hill from there. Sex was very rare (although she gave great oral) and eventually we called it quits. I was difficult for me afterwards, too. I lost some confidence and worried that other women would feel the same. BUT, in the end, as you'll learn from some of the women on this site, there are plenty of women out there who enjoy a full, thick, masculine joystick.
     
  6. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    First you really have to be considerate of her pain, and to begin with avoid positions with deep penetration or even if you can hold your hand the base so the full length isnt being use.
    Also even though alot of people say let her on top the problem i have is that my legs get very sore after a while and i tend to sink down deeper anyway which defeats the purpose, so dont rely on that position for too long.
    But in the end it comes down to plenty of foreplay, lube, how rough you are and positions.
     
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