Problem with looking at breasts.

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Mine are also gigantic, and while I do not generally enjoy it, I expect the sideways glances. Checking them out quickly and discretely doesn't upset me, but the line between polite interest and obnoxious objectification gets crossed all too often.

Gigantic? o_O
 

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I have big boobs like Dolf and they are gunna attract attention...hell they are almost big enough to warrant their own postcode and they enter a room 5 mins before the rest of me does!:wink::biggrin1:

I never run anywhere for fear of getting my eyes blackened.


Doesn't sound like a problem to me, but I'm kinda a boob fanatic. :biggrin1:
 
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Allow yet another female to add to the chorus:

A quick glance or two is fine, particularly if I'm wearing something low cut/slightly scandalous. I always am a bit perplexed if guys do so when I'm wearing a t-shirt or something however. It's only if they aren't looking anywhere else (like my face), and not saying anything and blatantly staring that will rub me the wrong way
 

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I'm very much a boob guy and with everything you do with women its about how you do it.

I have noticed women do not mind at all when I'm looking at their chest. It's hard to explain but there's a respecting way of looking which makes them feel sexy and there's a disrespecting way of looking which will make them think you're a pig.

I will even make jokes about how big they are when women are dressed to show them off. And when they are hidden away I will ask why she would hide those gorgeous assets from the world.

It's direct and blunt but the ladies seem to like it.
 

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I'm very much a boob guy and with everything you do with women its about how you do it.

I have noticed women do not mind at all when I'm looking at their chest. It's hard to explain but there's a respecting way of looking which makes them feel sexy and there's a disrespecting way of looking which will make them think you're a pig.

I will even make jokes about how big they are when women are dressed to show them off. And when they are hidden away I will ask why she would hide those gorgeous assets from the world.

It's direct and blunt but the ladies seem to like it.
Unless your respecting way of looking is to look briefly, and then look away and leave me the hell alone, I wouldn't like it. As for the rest, I NEVER want strangers to talk to me about my tits. Never ever. I am not one of those ladies who seem to like it. I tell men off.

Then again, we live in different countries, and perhaps it's a cultural difference.
 

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I'm very much a boob guy and with everything you do with women its about how you do it.

I have noticed women do not mind at all when I'm looking at their chest. It's hard to explain but there's a respecting way of looking which makes them feel sexy and there's a disrespecting way of looking which will make them think you're a pig.

I will even make jokes about how big they are when women are dressed to show them off. And when they are hidden away I will ask why she would hide those gorgeous assets from the world.

It's direct and blunt but the ladies seem to like it.

Yes- because all women are exactly the same and all respond to you in exactly the same way. Geez, you big, clever man, you! You have us sussed!

:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
 

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I'm very much a boob guy and with everything you do with women its about how you do it.

I have noticed women do not mind at all when I'm looking at their chest. It's hard to explain but there's a respecting way of looking which makes them feel sexy and there's a disrespecting way of looking which will make them think you're a pig.

I will even make jokes about how big they are when women are dressed to show them off. And when they are hidden away I will ask why she would hide those gorgeous assets from the world.

It's direct and blunt but the ladies seem to like it.

If someone were to assume I dressed specifically to show off my breasts, not just because I liked the clothes and was comfortable wearing them, and took it a step further as to comment on how big my tits are and that I was showing them off... I'd smack the fucker in the mouth.

Likewise, if I were wearing something that covered them up, like I am now since I have a cold, feel like shit and despite the blazing sun, I'm freezing cold, and someone asked me why... I'd make it very clear that I didn't appreciate the unsolicited sexual attention, and maybe that's part of the reason for covering them up. I mean just look at what you think is acceptable when you don't cover them up!

Guys in general like to check out tits, we all know you do it and most of you show at least a little consideration for how it might make the person attached to them feel.

I personally find it quite endearing when I catch a guy looking and he turns away all shy about it and tries to hide that he was doing it. What I don't find endearing, or even slightly acceptable is guys who continue to do so after being caught, make comments and all but drool all over them.
 

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So what did I do to deserve so much sarcasm and hate?

I'm telling about my experiences, never did I state all women act the same or should act like the women I'm talking about.

My experiences with big boobed women do not reflect any other women then the women I was talking about.
 

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So what did I do to deserve so much sarcasm and hate?

I'm telling about my experiences, never did I state all women act the same or should act like the women I'm talking about.

My experiences with big boobed women do not reflect any other women then the women I was talking about.

And we are telling you are a pig and your behavior just isn't acceptable.
 

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So what did I do to deserve so much sarcasm and hate?

I'm telling about my experiences, never did I state all women act the same or should act like the women I'm talking about.

My experiences with big boobed women do not reflect any other women then the women I was talking about.

We just gave you our experience of men like you and how we react to men like you...

Not sure I'm understanding how what we did was any different to what you did?
 

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And we are telling you are a pig and your behavior just isn't acceptable.

I'm talking respectfully about my interactions with women and me looking at their boobs and how they react to it which have made them smile on many occasions.

They even take it as far as them making jokes about their boobs to me, so this has never reflected on you or the other women on this forum.

So calling me a pig and my behaviour unacceptable is out of place here and it seems like you have quite some personal problems for taking it out on me in any case I'm reporting you.
 

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Oh do fuck off!

We just gave you our experience of men like you and how we react to men like you...

Not sure I'm understanding how what we did was any different to what you did?

It was different - we were treating him as an individual based on what he said and you and AE extrapolated that to 'men who behave like him' - so we were, in fact, affording him far more respect that he appears to afford 'big-boobed women', 'women' and 'ladies' - all of which categories you, me, Dragon and AE are part of (and yet don't behave as he reports the group, as a whole, does).

That's the difference :smile:
 

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We just gave you our experience of men like you and how we react to men like you...

Not sure I'm understanding how what we did was any different to what you did?

Not really, the forum is intended for discussion which I'm all open for but this was just a personal attack when respectfull conversation would have been something along the lines of "I disagree with you, I have never accepted your kind of behaviour from anyone." But instead I get you're a pig and lots of sarcasm.
 

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It was different - we were treating him as an individual based on what he said and you and AE extrapolated that to 'men who behave like him' - so we were, in fact, affording him far more respect that he appears to afford 'big-boobed women', 'women' and 'ladies' - all of which categories you, me, Dragon and AE are part of (and yet don't behave as he reports the group, as a whole, does).

That's the difference :smile:

You're right, as always!

Oh well, me and my big boobs will have to take whatever punishment the mods feel we deserve for being respectful of others!
 

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You're right, as always!

Oh well, me and my big boobs will have to take whatever punishment the mods feel we deserve for being respectful of others!

Alright, Ms.Admin! *waggles rump and boobehs enticingly* Oh Punish me! Punish Me! Harder!..OH......YYEESSSSSSS..HARDER! I've been sooo bad!
 

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I'm still inviting you for a respectfull discussion.

You can however as you please, ignore any intellectual conversation and use as much sarcasm and rude remarks as you'd like.

"Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly." –Albert Einstein.

Great quote and very fitting.