Not_Punny
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You can't save someone from themselves. She is obese because she has serious issues that are medicated with food. She has to be the one to take control of her life. And a partner (significant other) can't monitor the food and habits of another human being that has already passed through puberty.
You see, it's not the weight, it's the habits and mindset that create the weight. They are unhealthy in many other ways than the obvious symptom (weight). "Medicating with food" basically means that a person is unable to deal with issues in life and is hiding behind plates, bowls, and boxes of crackers.
Staying with her or leaving her isn't going to change her because she is the only one who can save herself. In other words, she can get help with her eating disorder, or she can wallow in it.
But whatever you do, give her a lifeline -- the book, The Rice Diet, is a very helpful book with 100% results if you do it. Or google eating disorders and check them out.
You see, it's not the weight, it's the habits and mindset that create the weight. They are unhealthy in many other ways than the obvious symptom (weight). "Medicating with food" basically means that a person is unable to deal with issues in life and is hiding behind plates, bowls, and boxes of crackers.
Staying with her or leaving her isn't going to change her because she is the only one who can save herself. In other words, she can get help with her eating disorder, or she can wallow in it.
But whatever you do, give her a lifeline -- the book, The Rice Diet, is a very helpful book with 100% results if you do it. Or google eating disorders and check them out.