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Of course like any relationship it started off nice! It has taken the normal turns of a typical relationship. Except for somewhere near the middle of the relationship the sex slowly came to an end for a very long time. Then I found out he was on a sex site, then I found out he went back to drinking (he was sober for almost 20 years). So last January everything came out in the open. Made attempts in the right direction towards sex but not drinking issues. Bottom line with sex is we both can be a bit insecure. And then the sex stopped again. Now I’m very insecure when it comes to making a move (huge fear of rejection I guess) and of course that makes him feel unwanted plus whatever his own insecurities are don’t help. So back to the internet we both went for sexual release. During our chats I have brought up open relationship, threesome and all were met with a NO.
Should I bring up open relationship again?
Obviously we are both human and sex and desire is apart of human nature. I have never cheated! But of course being human you’re aroused by others you find attractive. And if he is back online or never left being online says to me yes one he needs release like anyone else but my insecurities make me think he would like to have sex with others. Why else would you go to a hookup site instead of just looking for poem on the internet. Excuse me if my thoughts are all over the place. So many things going through my mind.
Is it possible it’s just an outlet for relaxing and release with no intention of looking for sex with someone else. I know everyone’s story is different. There I more but if I wrote everything it would be a 400 page book.
Any one else ever go through something similar? Outcome? Solutions? Suggestions?
Should I bring up open relationship again?
Obviously we are both human and sex and desire is apart of human nature. I have never cheated! But of course being human you’re aroused by others you find attractive. And if he is back online or never left being online says to me yes one he needs release like anyone else but my insecurities make me think he would like to have sex with others. Why else would you go to a hookup site instead of just looking for poem on the internet. Excuse me if my thoughts are all over the place. So many things going through my mind.
Is it possible it’s just an outlet for relaxing and release with no intention of looking for sex with someone else. I know everyone’s story is different. There I more but if I wrote everything it would be a 400 page book.
Any one else ever go through something similar? Outcome? Solutions? Suggestions?