I'm not enormous: erect I'm just over 7". The biggest problem I have is when I'm not erect. I have to be careful of what I wear and how I stand or it shows like a horse. I also a have good looks, so I feel people think I'm a braggart. I got a new job, and had been working there a month or so (it's a casual musician's job where you can wear blues jeans, shorts, etc). One morning I came in to work and a girl was talking to my boss which I had to pass by. She turned around and looked at my crotch as I passed by (it looked as if the boss had said "Here her comes--look!"). Believe me, I'm not saying this is a horrible defectin fact, it is something to be proud ofbut I just don't want people thinking I'm flaunting myself. A fews days later I walked in to work, and the same boss said to me (and this guy's a "reborn Christian"), "So" insert my name here, "did you ever think of going into ballet?" He smirked an inside joke smirk, and I asked what he meant. He shrugged it off. Later I realized it was because I was wearing blue jeans that showed my size---not painted on, though. Again, I'm certainly not ashamed of the size, but it does seem to cause male to male relationship problems because they assume I'm either a womanizer or gay. Sigh.