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I have learned that I have to fantasize to cum, and when I watch porn or just fantasize I can cum pretty quickly. The orgasm is relatively normal.
My problem is that when I am with someone I can almost rarely cum. I fuck for an hour and still... nothing. I have to finish "by hand" and when I finally do cum it is a whole body, mind numbing orgasm. I spray a ton of cum (just because of the hour of edging) but the orgasm lasts about 5 minutes. I end up completely tired, my muscles all sore, and at times I have had a charlie-horse in my calf muscle right at the point of cumming. After cumming I can barely stand up, and if someone touches me, I start shaking with a post orgasm after-shock.
But.. I only seem to meet guys who cum within a few minutes, and I am left wanting more. They get upset that I am not cumming with them, or if it lasts long enough and I finish up by jerking, and have my massive orgasm, they get put off by it.
Any ideas on getting over the hump. I just want to be able to cum normally with someone. Perhaps stop watching porn and cumming when I am not with someone? I tried that but it still was hard to cum.
My problem is that when I am with someone I can almost rarely cum. I fuck for an hour and still... nothing. I have to finish "by hand" and when I finally do cum it is a whole body, mind numbing orgasm. I spray a ton of cum (just because of the hour of edging) but the orgasm lasts about 5 minutes. I end up completely tired, my muscles all sore, and at times I have had a charlie-horse in my calf muscle right at the point of cumming. After cumming I can barely stand up, and if someone touches me, I start shaking with a post orgasm after-shock.
But.. I only seem to meet guys who cum within a few minutes, and I am left wanting more. They get upset that I am not cumming with them, or if it lasts long enough and I finish up by jerking, and have my massive orgasm, they get put off by it.
Any ideas on getting over the hump. I just want to be able to cum normally with someone. Perhaps stop watching porn and cumming when I am not with someone? I tried that but it still was hard to cum.