problems getting hard with huge penis?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by kimwinter, Sep 14, 2006.

  1. kimwinter

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    as i only ever saw a real big one once in my life, i wonder if its quite normal for them having problems getting real hard erections. do cocks over 10 inches still hang between the legs when hard in most guys? saw a black extremely hung guy in a porn movie as well, i guess he was called 18inches, and he looked like having problems getting real hard as well.
    another question, maybe related: is it more likely to have a curve down if your huge?
     
  2. Snakebyte

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    that would be statistics as for the curve.
    as for the hardness, everyone is different
     
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    It's been a common complaint (in pre-Viagra days anyway) that men with really large cocks have more difficulty getting and staying hard ~ despite all the macho bravado you hear on this site. Part of that is simply physiology... a larger cock takes more blood to fill than a smaller cock, plus you have gravity exerting its force on what is basically a cantilever. Penises all start inside the body from about the same point and protrude out. Shorter penises will have less gravity to overcome, thereby putting less strain on the mechanics of an erection (blood flow/retention). The cantilever is more equally balanced with a shorter penis.

    If you were to build a cantilever on the same design as a lengthy penis, chances are it wouldn't stand very long. A cantilever works best when the supported (non-protruding) section is the same length or longer than the unsupported (protruding) section. The part of the penis that is inside the body is supported... but the longer the unsupported part, the greater its likelihood of succumbing to the forces of weight and gravity. If you look at buildings that have long protrusions of unsupported cantilever, over time they all sag due to these forces. Well hung men have more to overcome than their smaller-dicked brethren.

    As for curve... well that's more a matter of DNA than anything else, I would think. Look around this site... there are many big-uns that curve upward or to the side as well as those that curve down. Mine goes straight out. I have a buddy whose 8" dick curves to the side AND up. Almost like a corkscrew.

    BBJ
     
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    the highest i can get it up is pretty much 90 degrees, but i must be at full erection or ast least close. I tend to have trouble getting full erections at night, or when i am tired, or if the room is too warm
     
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    I agree with BarebackJack to the extent that I don't think the angle of an erection or its curve is a measure of its hardness. The bigger you are the more the weight is likely to make you point lower than a smaller man might. You can be way below horizontal and still very hard indeed.

    I find that keeping fit makes a difference to me as I get older. If I am training regularly I get more erections and ones that are bigger and firmer on average too. It is all about blood circulation. But I have always noticed a range in quality of erection: some are barely hard and only just about useable, others fully hard and my standard size, and there are still at my age plenty of rip-roaring ones that add more size and even manage to stand up pretty well.
     
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    I find with my BF that it varies from day to day, how horny he is etc. Even when he is very hard it is still shy of a 90 degree angle. Doesn't curve though, very straight. Also there are fluctuations throughout our activities where it will be softer or harder. At 10 x 6 sometimes I am a bit grateful that it isn't rock hard, otherwise I wouldn'e be able to take it. I am a more modest 7 incher and I am consistently hard as a rock. Maybe that's the price some people have to pay for being hung like donkeys, it's a fair trade though isn't it?
     
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    As far as how I hang I hang straight out. Cock curves to the left, and is very hard. Never pointed upwards even as a young teen. 8x6.25 inches
     
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    Super hard my my penis points up at about 45 degrees, usually it points slightly upward, It has a upward curve though. I have no problems getting very hard, however my penis is only slightly over 8.5" x 6.5" a ways off from the 10 plus you mention in you thread.:smile:
     
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    Like some others have said, it makes sense. A larger cock needs more blood to get hard, so it might not get as hard as a smaller one that needs less blood. I know from personal experience that it is possible to get a large penis totally hard. My FWB at the moment is roughly 8 inches and he gets positively steel hard. We've talked about it and it probably has to do with his blood circulation. He's a volunteer firefighter and so not only is he in great shape but he does exercises specifically designed to improve blood circulation in his body. Having good circulation is supposed to increase his body's ability to heal burns and also to function in a really bad fire situation. I also know he's been practicing edging for years. So it might have to do with that too. Of course I don't really care WHY! :tongue: :biggrin1:
     
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    I have to be very horny to get my full girth and stand upright, i have to be really horny. It also can take me a while to get there as I have quite a low blood pressure anyway so anything like tiredness or smoking weed really effects me
     
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    You are so right, I'm not huge, but my girth is... I just can't normally summon enough blood to totally fill my caverns. My blood pressure too is low and I'm normally pretty sloth-like... and then there's the smoke thing.
     
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    My husband is very fit and he works at it. I'm sure that makes a difference.
    My husband is usually paralel to the floor or about half that. I don't think I've ever seen it hang between his legs unless it was semi-soft. He has strong erections, but he feels they are not as hard as they were when he was in his 20's.
     
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    I guess guys have an easier time getting really hard when they're younger? I guess that makes sense. My bf is 23 and he's pretty big but he usually gets really, really hard which I really like. The only thing is if we have sex twice in the same day he might not be as hard the 2nd time, or if we have sex 1st thing in the morning after we did it last thing at night. But usually if we wait a whole day between having sex he gets completely hard again.
     
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    I'M ok getting hard and stayin for hours maybe cause i have a thight rather than long one. What disturb me is that when i use condoms i can reach 70% hardness....
     
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    My boyfriend in college measured 11" hard and it pointed up above a parallel to the floor. It didn't point up as much as more average guys. He'd get rock hard. Something I didn't mention was that despite being only 19 years old, he didn't have a real strong sex drive. Seemed like 3 times a week was all he was interested in, although I could get him quite hard the next night after we'd had sex. He just didn't seem as enthusiastic as usual and would have a hard time coming. That could be really good for me, but he usually just shied away from sex if we'd done it the night before. :redface:
     
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    I have a friend 15 years younger than me. He is probably half the size of me. He has to take viagra to get hard. You have to eat a good diet, no smoking etc. My friend was in tears when he talked to me. He said he hadnt had an erection in over a year
     
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    I am 63 and until recently, my penis was hard most of the day and night every day and I could use it hard for hours from the time I was in my 30s and onward. I have had it hard from late afternoon and bring my partner to dozens of orgasms through the night with extreme hard-ons. I can still do that with constant sex and a partner who can take that much cock. If I contract my butt muscles, my hard penis will stick straight out horizontally, but normally when fully hard, it will be down 30 to 45 degrees from horizontal, but there is no curve in it. I think one of the reasons for no curve is that I have always let it hang freely and worn boxers. I have used an electric pump and increased if from over 8 inches to around 10 and it gets so thick in girth, it seems to weigh another pound or two and it droops down a few more degrees even though it is hard. At that size, as some have said above, there is a lot of blood in it and it is not quite as hard as when shorter before pumping, but my lady friends say it feels as though it is as hard. A few days afterward and with no further pumping it will be rock hard even at the increased size.

    I have had several white friends with 10 inchers naturally and they had semi-hards only and never as hard as mine at what I call nearly rock hard. I do notice a lot of the porno guys are faking it at fucking and have really soft long (semi-hard) dicks. It could be for some of them that they have been so long filming the scenes that it is hard for them to keep their dicks hard for long periods.
     
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    While what you say about having proper diet and health is 100% true, that doesnt change the fact that the mechanics of a very large penis make it more difficult to become erect as you get older.
    Another factor is psychology, which plays a major part as well. You can be in perfect physical health and still have problems.
     
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    Hardness is directly due to ability of penis to clamp off the return flow of blood through the venous system and naturally this dam has more trouble since what it is damming is a larger head pressure in a large penis with the consequent larger blood volume. I have found variations from rubbery to granite as Max and others have experienced that did not occur in the pre PE days and much smaller penis. I will not complain with a flaccid that exceeds former rock star. As we age if we fail to exercise vigorously the circulatory system begins to decline and fails to repair and regenerate as it did when we were young leading to hardening vessels and poorer blood flow which leads to worsening condition of the cock flood retention system. So exercise is in order to keep all this tubing and valves in top shape and able to sustain the rigors placed upon it when we mature blissfully endowed or magnified men want to have and sustain a wondrously firm and incredibly penetrating erection.
     
  20. Mr. Snakey

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    Yes! You are right! I give my penis a good workout every day With someone or without! Probably for the last 20 years Almost everyday. Its a good way to start the day ! The most important thing is your mind! The mind is the best viagra in the world!! I cant stress this enough!! Just train your mind to think about the best sex you ever had instead of the bills you have to pay or problems at work. To put down a penis because its too big is silly Im 46 now and im surprised at how hard my erections are There are men in their 70s getting erections and having sex.:cool:
     
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