Problems staying stiff with condoms...

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by Ramsey, Mar 22, 2011.

  1. Ramsey

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    Does that mean they are too tight or that my dick just hates them? Don't have a whole lot of experience using them frankly.
     
  2. Ramsey

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    Far less problems staying hard without them.
     
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    It's just something you have to get used to, especially if you haven't used them much in the past. Don't sweat it.
     
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    Try using them when masturbating, to get used the feeling of wearing them and keeping yourself hard.

    Plus, there is less mess to clean up afterward!
     
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    They keep wanting to slide up the shaft and not stay in place...
     
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    i have the exact same problem, luckily im in a comitted relationship now so i dotn wear them anymore XD
     
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    Try bigger condoms. I feel a lot more when I'm wearing a Magnum XL than when I have to use a standard sized one.
     
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    Maybe iys the girls your sleepin' with! Try making them wear a paperbag (a fetish) or maybe up-the-bum!
     
  9. Ramsey

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    No, no, no, I'm attracted to her and I love her and she's nice and snug anyway. Going in deep with her is a slower process. Makes her back arch and she groans so nicely...
     
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    its that big cock head man! XLs will feel a lot better
     
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    What size are you using? You're pretty thick so you probably need XL's. Also, do you lube up your condoms before you put them on? I find condoms dont have enough lube even if they're pre lubed. Putting a little bit of water based lube in before you put them on makes a HUGE difference for comfort and sensation as well. Without enough lube i hate domers, with lube its great! Almost as good as without. :tongue:
     
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    I was gonna say the same thing. Add lube. You'll be surprised the difference having internal lube in the condom can make on feeling.
     
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    yeah I kinda get what you mean. A plain condom is too dry and tight which makes it harder to stay super hard unless I'm super horny. I use trojan ectasy's because of the extra lube inside them. They are the closet thing I can get with my gf to doing it raw.
     
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    Thanks for the input guys!
     
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    I agree man, I had a lot of problems when using regular condoms. It got ALOT better when I upgraded to magnums finally. It will fix the sliding off problem, is a lot more comfortable and will help with the whole hardness thing. I used to lose hardness but cuz i kept thinking of how uncomfortable they were but with magnums u wont have that in the back of ur mind : D
     
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    Ditto the ecstasy. Whole new world now. magnum XL has the best fit, but ecstasy feels best in teh act.
     
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