Hi I'm new here. Not really sure what this site is all about, or how serious it is, but I wasn't sure where else to turn. My new boyfriend is a really great guy and we get along very well. But for some reason that I can't even figure out myself I've always had a thing for, well, big guys. And he is really not one of them. I mean I work in the medical field and if I didn't think it would hurt his feelings I would tell him to see a doctor about it. Its seriously like 4 inches long or something. The thing is that I feel bad about not dealing with it and I wish that everything was ok with him. But is this just something that stays in your blood? I mean I can't even figure out why I like bigger guys so much- its definitely psychological. Does anyone get the psychology behind that? Feel free to post or email me or whatever because I'm honestly feeling confused and I don't know what to do.