problems with oral sex

[nmf9in]

I've had a few who couldn't give good head/had a hard time opening wide enough-but not very many. Judging from your pics, I'm a little longer & thicker than you, with a bigger head. Old enough here to know there's lots of talented, enthusiastic women in MI (Ohio too!) who give great head-don't give up-they're out there...!!!

 

[B_subgirrl]

One's a muscle that can stretch quite considerably, whereas your jaw can only open so much before you dislocate it; and that's no fun I'm sure.

My jaw does this semi-dislocation thing where it pops out of place and locks. It's a little painful at times, but extremely useful.

3) What are your expectations? I don't really care about deep throat--It looks better in porn than it feels in real life, and it takes quite a while for a woman to perfect the style. On the other hand, I always prefer doing it bareback with swallowing. Nothing ruins it like having her spit.

This may sound naive and ridiculous, but people actually spit? I always thought that was more joke than reality. It has never even occurred to me to spit, even my first time.

4) Finally, how do you feel about it? I prefer oral sex to vaginal, but I know some guys don't like it at all.

My ex was one of those who didn't like it. It did nothing for him at all. We were a bad combination.

now that i read this over i realize they must just be inexperienced since it usually just comes down to the same exact motion over and over and very slow, thats probably why it doesnt do too much for me, yet of course they had used the lines "every guy has said i was the best at it."

I'd definitely put them in the inexperienced category. A bj is sooooo much more than that.

If someone knows how to give good head they can give it to anyone of any size.

I think this is only partially true. If a guy is particularly thick and really bothered by teeth, I'll be somewhat limited in what I can do. It will still be a damn good bj, but not as good the less sensitive guys get.

 

[Empathizer]

I'd never spit, either, but yeah, people do.

Some people just don't appreciate cum

 

[D_Logistam Twigwilly]

never had a girl that appreciates cum. Maybe i need to eat more pineapple.

 

[Melly]

I'd never spit, either, but yeah, people do.

Some people just don't appreciate cum

It's my reward for a job well done. yum:

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

had a lady friend who really disliked me trying to not come in her mouth! i guess i have been lucky, have not met a spitter yet.

i got a sweater for christmas once! dang it, i asked for a screamer!!!!

 

[Empathizer]

It's my reward for a job well done. yum:

Exactly! Plus, the Bible says not to spill seed, so really we're just being good, Bible-believing Jews and Christians :lmao::lmao:

 

[B_subgirrl]

I'd never spit, either, but yeah, people do.

Some people just don't appreciate cum

But spitting seems so impolite! Oh, hang on a moment, I just need to go and spit out your bodily fluids because I don't really like them. Bit of a mood killer I'd think?

Cum is fantastic! Yes, it tastes weird. But that's part of what makes it special. And it came from HIM (whichever him I happen to be with). Why would I want to get rid of it?

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

I've heard that most girls just do not give very good head.

Incidentally, your cock is perfect looking.

never been my experience! some better than others and some mindblowing great!:069: but my experience has been with women and ladies not girls.

 

[ruggerkit28]

your dick does a on the larger size.

i think it is just a matter of technique. there is more to a bj than just sucking a dick.

unless a girl has a LOT of experience, they do not know how to satisfy a dick. guys do.

tell her to lick the end, to suck on the end, work her tongue round the top and into your pee slit. also, to suck your balls, most girls don't even think of that.

with a long, thick shaft, wanking your shaft while sucking the head will bring you off to a great orgasm. believe me.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

can anyone tell me if the size of my penis makes it harder to give a bj or if im just with girls who lack any talent, ive had 4 different girls attempt it and none have ever been any good. i need to know the problem here so i can fix it, i appreciate any feedback or advice anyone can give :smile:

i wouldn't think your size is the issue. look at it this way. lots of fun finding a person who can do it right. happy hunting!

 

[Chase1600]

OK, so here’s how I see the problem.

Your girlfriends don’t know how to do it right. You need to teach them. But, you’ve never had a proper blow job, so you don’t know what to teach. You need a proper blow job.

When should I come over?

 

[Melly]

tell her to lick the end, to suck on the end, work her tongue round the top and into your pee slit. also, to suck your balls, most girls don't even think of that.

I'm more than happy to suck on his balls, but only if they're shaved. I think pubes are gross and that's probably a personal thing, but I bet I'm not the only girl who'd prefer not to stop mid-blow job to pull a pubic hair out of her mouth. Not sexy at all.

 

[gdonthegreat]

yeah i think you guys basically hit the nail on the head, especially with the wanting a good one but not knowing how to tell them how since ive never had a good one, and i normally do keep the area shaved as much as i can because i know i wouldnt wanna be playin down there with a bunch of hair either.
its too bad i dont know anyone in person that wants to jump on the chance to suck it like they do here, what a great place =)