Nope, although I would like to be. Seriously. I don't see my FBs frequently enough for my liking. I need to pick up another one or two.
This sounds like me! I'm in the process of finding more FBs. I have one but he is busy a lot (I'm sure with other FBs other than me, too, but that's ok. I have no problem with that - I'm not exclusive and I don't expect him to be, either.)
Yep. Between the ages of 18 and 21 I fucked like a rabbit. It was fantastic.
I WISH! I have had probably about an average number of partners (about 14 for my entire life), yet I've experienced stuff that isn't quite, uh, average... like I've been in an orgy and was with 4 guys in one day, and actually 3 of those 4 were in a MMFM with me! Also, I'm white, and I've been with 3 black guys and 2 Hispanic guys and the rest were white. (My current FB is one of the 3 black guys...)
Sexual gratification. I just loved sex. I loved the way it may me feel (physically and otherwise) and I loved pleasing others.
Me too!
Empowered and confident. That whole period was a feel-good time for me.
Edited to add that my friend during this time had sex with almost as many people as I did. however her motivations were a little different. She was always looking for Mr Right. I sometimes wonder if she feels any regret about it, or if she is as comfortable with her past as I am.
The funny thing is, I'm sort of looking for Mr. Right - but I don't want to live like a nun in the meantime! And I don't do FBs expecting them to be Mr. Right. I just enjoy the moment. :smile: So yes, I'm very comfortable with my past - except I wish I had had MORE sex partners!
However, I am well aware of the social stigmas of women doing this. So, I keep my casual sex life separate from my more standard social life. None of the people in my standard social life (except maybe one or two) are aware of this other side of me.
The problem I'm running into now, is that due to finances I now live with a roommate, and I'm trying to keep her unaware of this side of me! It can be tricky, especially if she starts asking "Where are you going?", "What have you been doing?" kind of questions.