Last summer a shared a home with four guys. One is tall and lanky and claims to be very well endowed. He does have the body type. Well he and another roomate asked me if I think that a third room mate was gay because he is very attached to the 4th room mate(they're army buddies). I said no I didn't think so. Then low and behold the tall one approached me one night in the kitchen when we were alone and asked me out of the clear blue if i "wanted to fool around, Kind of like a gay thing." I was stunned and wasn't sure if he was joking or serious. Then he said, "Ahhh, you want it, you hesitated too long." I said, "No I don't", enjoying the rush it gave me( never experienced that since 18yo). I wanted to so bad but felt very vulnerable. Then it got to where we would talk about sex and masturbation a lot. But he is always pointing his gaydar at people. I want to take him up on the offer but scared it would backfire on me. Any suggestions?