pros/cons of being large/small

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  1. Imported

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    dhq412: hi, I thought this might be a funny topic to start, so here it is:

    what do you think the pros/cons are of having a large or small penis is? Ill list some for being small

    Pro: Don't accidentally sit on it when you sit down
    Pro: If you get a boner in public its not obvious
    Con: Having it retract into your body(other small guys will know what im talking about, larger guys probably have no clue)

    well thats all i can think of for now, feel free to post your own :)
     
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    HI there dhq412,

    We're all glad you're with us! You have a good idea for a topic--and, it's nice to have YOUR comments from your perspective...But----

    'Just a reminder that further along in the "Meet & Greet" there is already a thread about "pluses and minuses" dealing with the larger guys....so, you may want to read through those for ideas from that side of the story. :)
     
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    mr17yearold: having it retract into your body... please tell me its not what im thinking in my head ::)
     
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    hivez: most of the time retraction of the penis is due to them being overweight.
     
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    Alligator_Jack: i saw my friends do this once....wasnt overweight, i described it as a turtle going into the shell...he laughed, it looked kinda funny sorry to say
     
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    hivez: it may be funny but i know a lot of guys who have many issues being overweight and a large fatpad which decreases the overall appearance of the flaccid dick size :| I can imagine it being nice to have a large dick and no worries, but they'res a whole different world out there for us who arn't endowed and try to liveup to the pornstars
    -It's just an opinion don't flame me for it
     
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    dhq412: hey, yeah, it is probably exactly what you are thinking:)

    It happens to me a lot, even though I'm no where near overweight(6' tall, 145 lbs) I guess it could be correlated to shrinkage, because it always happens after i do a workout or go swimming for a while... like, suppose a normal guys flaccid penis shrinks by...i dunno...an inch(thats just a guess, i have no clue how much they shrink), and mine is only an inch long...so...it kinda just goes into hiding :)

    but yeah, most of the times it is due to people being overweight...but i think(just my set of values) that people should worry more about themselves being overweight strictly as a helath problem as opposed to their penis being small
     
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    Ineligible: Even when it isn't nothing, a small one flaccid tends to stick out rather than hang down, which is sometimes uncomfortable.
     
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    Just a passing thought--
    Concerning the "fat pad" / hidden shaft-length issue for some, many guys will keep the pubes (pubic hair) trimmed or shaved just around the penis itself so as to help "reveal" more of the shaft as it exits the body....not a lot of trimming and shaving mind you--just neatly trimming the hair in an area about 1/2" to 3/4" all the way around the shaft. Many report it helps "improve" the appearance and helps "visually" suggest more length (which has really been there all along--but, "hidden to some degree").
    And of course, as already noted; loosing a bit of the weight (in that lower abdomen area) certainly couldn't hurt towards improving overall better health which IS far more important.
     
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    I'm still a little bit in the dark, so can anyone point out exactly what they mean by retrating into the body? ;D
     
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    dhq412: ok, here is an explanation johnstone of what i meant by retract into your body

    basically, think of this:

    imagine your penis being around 1" long when soft

    and now, imagine doing some physical activity like swimming or a soccer match...normally, when you do that kind of activity, you get shrinkage, but since its only 1" long, basically the entire shaft shrinks into the persons body, so theres NOTHING on the outside, exceept a little skin if the person is uncircumsized.

    and thats what i meant by retracting into your body :)
     
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    :eek:

    How do you pee?
     
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    hivez: ya pull it out
     
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    mr17yearold: so it sorta looks like a second belly button??? that is really weird... i thought i was small(compaired to my erect size, 8 3/4"x6") only 4"-4.5" when flaccid... i guess i have a lot to be thankful for... wouldnt that make a strange but memerable grace for thanksgiving :D
     
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    dhq412: yeah, it definitely looks like a second belly button, and an innie at that...lol, yes, that would make a good thanksgiving statement....but anyways, someone asked how you pee, (for me atleast) i push at the top of my penis(near where the top of the penis meets the rest of my body) i guess that puts enough pressure on it so that it comes back out, and it will generally stay out until another situation occurs where it goes into hiding again
     
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    da_blissmachine: pro: looks good in your fist
    con: takes a while to take a piss...... this looks weird at urinal
     
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    H8Monga: dhq412, I'm glad to find someone else who understands. I also read that the muscles in the area can draw it up, I've noticed that when I am nervous and that is extremely uncomfortable. Back when I was 13-14 I got so tired of my pubic hair getting caught in it and that hurt. Cutting pubes for fashion and to make it look bigger is not my reason for at least giving it a trim. Mine is because I'm overweight, but it's not limited to overweight guys. Other guys do not seem to know what it's like not to hang. I do wonder if I were really skinny, would I be a shower instead of a grower? If so, what I'd show wouldn't be far from my erect size.

    Pro: Don't get caught in your zipper... wait I've done that once...ow!
    Pro: If you're circumcised, you kind of understand what it's like not to be uncut... if you retract...
    Pro: It's not there to get ingured... however, the balls would be...
    Con: Getting hair caught if you retract...
     
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    tott666: I'm not big but I've never experienced it "disappearing" when cold or anything. Shrinking, certainly! ;D

    I suppose the biggest advantage to being smaller is that it's easier/more comfortable to handle for a present/prospective partner? Most people aren't really size queens even if they might appreciate bigger ones. I like all sizes; I am fascinated by big ones but they can be hard to "accomodate"...

    Should I stumble upon Mr Right, I couldn't care less if he had 5" or 12".
     
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    punk9: damn, I freak out when the cold shrinks mine down to 4" soft.

    mom once asked me what size underwear do I wear...told her it depended on whether it was warm or cold.
     
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    H8Monga: [quote author=punk9 link=board=meetgreet;num=1043116991;start=15#18 date=03/24/03 at 14:27:13]damn, I freak out when the cold shrinks mine down to 4" soft.

    mom once asked me what size underwear do I wear...told her it depended on whether it was warm or cold.[/quote]
    :D
    I'd be lucky if I could even get 4" soft...
     
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