Hockeytiger
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A few things. One is he didn't lie to you. He was honest. Now it is totally up to you to figure out what it is he is doing, and whether or not you have ANY tolerance for it.
In my own case, I'd let him go. I have no tolerance for any drug whatsoever.
Some may say pot is OK with them, if it's OK with you that is your choice.
I'd definitely talk to him more about it, but one thing I will say is at the very least he didn't try to cover up and lie.
Stephen really hits the nail on the head here. Pro-he didn't lie to you. Con-He does drugs and you don't care for that.
All of our partners do things that irritate or bother us. We all have character flaws. But I'd like you to think about the following points.
1) Does he need drugs to have a good time?
2) Do drugs come into play in regards to sex? (You may not know that yet.)
3) You said that he goes with the crowd. If you are going to date him, are you comfortable with that crowd?