A year ago I was diagnosed with PC - had the operation (nerve sparring and all that !). My issue is that almost no-one understands the difference with a person who is basically the "passive sexual" identity. One (amongst many anal joys) was being able to put my balls up my arse and "auto fuck" myself. Absolutley loved being fucked etc. Now there is NO feeling at all. My sex life is now non - existent - it so depressing. (I'm in a relationship but, have lost all my libido which is so hard on my partner). Has anyone been through this??