The anerous is OK, I have a standard one, which is a bit small, and a helix which feels good. I also have a vibrating one with a bit more of a curve to it, don't recall the brand, it feels incredible. Your cock can be completely soft but you will be pumping precum and cum like you never had before, it's quite a good feeling. I've tried some butt plugs too, check my pics, next purchase is an Njoy metal plug which I think I'll like.