Background info: I had my left testicle removed when I was about 15 because of a small, hard lump. At first they thought it was cancer, but the biopsy a week after the surgery determined it was a harmless epidermoid cyst. About a month after my surgery, I started to notice that on occasion, after a more enjoyable ejaculation, I would suddenly become incontinent for a half hour or so. At first I thought I had a bladder infection (and got antibiotics from the doc for it) because I felt a fairly intense burning sensation when I peed, but eventually I realized it was burning because I was having to hold in my pee by clenching my dick -- I could not control the flow otherwise. This has happened on and off (about once a month) ever since then, for the past four years. I have tried my best to ignore it, rationalize it ("maybe I'm masturbating too much!!"), and put it out of my mind, but today when I had to sit on the toilet for practically 45 minutes just because I couldn't control my pee, I realized that I need to do something about it. It usually only happens when I masturbate twice or more in a short span of time -- almost never happens when I just do it once a day. I suspect it's something wrong with my prostate, but I'm not sure. I suspect it's related to my surgery...but I'm not sure. Has anyone else had this happen to them, and can someone please offer me advice? I'd like to just go to my doctor, but she is a lady doctor and I would feel uncomfortable discussing it with her.