puberty

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  1. italy24

    italy24 New Member

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    hey guys just wondering if any of your dads ever taught you about puberty and what is was going to be like having a big penis?
     
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    No. Dealt with it all myself.
     
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    Mr dad was very carefull to explain the changes that would occur during puberty and fully covered "The Birds and The Bees". He explained penis/pubic and facial hair growth at different stages of puberty. He also talked about the fact that I had a much larger penis than most for my age and to not be concerened about it's size.
    His talks saved me a lot of concerens and questions as I was growing up. :hi:




     
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    My dad didn't nor did my mom.

    We learned in Sex Ed class.
    We evolved from there.

    Im sure my parents were releaved that they didn't have to do that duty.
    C
     
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    Dad died when I was 5, and my Mom wasn't going to talk to me about puberty. My four older brothers covered the basics and I winged the rest.

    Take care

    Ceg
     
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    Hahaha No, mostly Sex Ed and the internet. I'm pretty sure my parents think I'm small but I'm 8x6.
     
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    Yeah, dad talked about it.
     
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(HappyHammer1977 &#064; Nov 2 2005, 01&#58;03 PM) [post=357610]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
    No. Dealt with it all myself.
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    Same here.

    SG
     
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    As strange as it may sound, the only thing he inadvertantly helped through puberty was the beginning of hard-ons was the result of him leaving his PLAYBOYS around for me to look at.

    Anything else after that came from Sex Ed in school, and later on, the head cheerleader(No pun intended!)
     
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    My dad "discussed" penis size with me exactly once in my life. I was a pre-schooler and saw his thing when we were both in the bathroom and I asked him if mine was going to be that big when I grew up. His response was "Be careful what you wish for, kid."

    The only other counsel I ever got from a family member was from my uncle, when I was a pubescent lad, who took me aside one day and asked me if I had "the family curse". I didn't know what he meant, so he had to explain to me that his father (my grandfather) and his father's father and many of the men on that side of the family had large penises. Or "too big" as he put it. I proudly informed him that yes, mine was extremely large too, and he closed his eyes, shook his head, and told me that I'd never be able to have normal sex with a woman, that it would result in nothing but pain for both parties.

    What a heavy load to lay on a kid! I guess that means that thanks to the prudish Victorian mores of their youth, my uncle and aunt never had a satisfying sex life, which is really sad. They did have one child, a daughter who is only a couple of years younger than my dad.
     
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    I had ideas of the mechanics of sex from very early on, having grown up on a farm but my father (not the best role model) made it plain to me by the time I was 10 that he was going to take me to a whore when I turned 14 "to make a man" of me. He died on my 11th birthday.

    My maternal grandfather took over my upbringing and he was very open. We had long discussions about puberty and sex. I was a late bloomer and he never made me feel odd because my friends and cousins had left me behind in maturity.
     
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    My father was very open with me about sex and puberty.

    I didn't feel wierd about going to him when I noticed that I was bigger than my friends in the cock department. I actually went to him not so much for the size of my schlong, but the size of my balls. When I was around 14 years old, my ball sack suddenly got much longer and heavier. I went to my father about it and he took me to see his urologist. The uroligist looked at me and told me there was nothing wrong with me - but that I should be careful to wear underwear with enough suport. He also told me that I wasn't a freak and that my father showed how much he cared about me by bringing me in to see the doctor.

    My father is not as well hung as I am by any means, but he sees my endowment as something to be proud of...he thinks it's really cool. :cool:
     
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    My father never specifically spoke about sex directly too me, but sex was a topic often discussed in general I think. My father is and was a pervert. I learned about sex through watching his porno's and reading his porno mags . He new they were missing and would just come into my room and get them. It was like an unspoken bond between us. We shared porn. But it was never discussed. Only once my dad said too me "If your too embarassed to buy condoms, let me know..." of course i was a bit mordified, but thankful to have his support.
     
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    My folks bought me a book that explained everything, including average dick sizes. For years I was never sure whther those were average sizes for 11 year olds or adults, seeing as I was 5" long at 11!

    Despite them saying to ask any questions I liked, I was a little too embarrassed to bring that up. My older brother's GQs and FHMs set the record straight a couple of years later though ;-)
     
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    My Dad was a Baptist Minister and out of the picture by the time I was 4. My Mother was a Urologist but she never discussed anything sexual with me, it seemed she thought it would be perverse for her to talk to me and wanted my Dad or Grand Dad to do it. Neither ever did. We lived in a rural farming area and all the guys knew about sex from watching all the animals and from sex ed at school.

    I'm happy to report that with my own sons it was a bit different. We had "THE" talk and I answered their questions as best I could. Both we're well informed by the time they started puberty.
     
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    My dad talked to me during my puberty. but he was a little late because when he told me the first time what will happen to me and my body, my penis has had its first growthspurt. But he warned me that it will not has been the last one because he knows his own size and at this time i was not even close to his size. today i am bigger...
     
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    the first time I talked to him about it. A stupid kid, at school, was making fun of my size, saying I'd never be able to have sex and therefore no babies. I told my father about what the stupid kids said and he told me not to worry about it, after all he and mom had had two kids.

    The other time we were both a little drunk and he tanked me for bringing roomier underwear home during college.

    -- aside --

    Neither of my parents are prudes or victorian; I just hit puberty so early that I was put in sex ed. class a year early.
     
  18. slayer04

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    my dad never seriously talked to me about dick size...my family is real uptight when it comes to that kind of stuff
     
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    Like most things in life, I was left to figure out sex and puberty on my own.
    Can't think of anything that my father taught me.
    The only thing I learned at my mother's knee was what a knobby knee felt like! Just kidding. She taught a few things. But not sex.

    Thinking of my upbringing, while reading all the other posts, I thought that it was odd but really wonderful that so many dads cared enough to guide their sons with some useful information.
     
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