Public displays

[lovinglife]

Let me know about this:
From what I can tell, many women LOOOOVE "secretive" public displays. By this, I mean things like grazing your boyfriend/SO's crotch in public to get him hard. Or the idea of fooling around at a table, like a guy rubbing a girl while the girl rubs the guy (first to make a sound loses).

Is this generally true (or at least true for you)? Why are they appealing to you? Are there others that you enjoy as well?

 

[EllieP]

Guilty as charged.

 

[Enid]

Also guilty

 

[MickeyLee]

mate-molest stealth mode is the fun.

the boy no longer feels safe wearing long coats.

 

[693987]

I am an odd one, then. Public stuff in a lot of ways isn't fun for me. I have an exhibitionist side, but some things are just uncomfortable for me. Giving head stealthily = too awkward for me. Being led around on a leash clipped to a collar I'm wearing = awesome. Covert bondage/rope underneath clothing, etc = fun. I've never done the footsie/whatever type stuff, though... and the one time I went out in public with a skirt and no panties on just made me super self-conscious.

 

[paigexox]

Stealth affection is fine by me. A secretive rub, grope, or gesture that only a partner is aware of in a public space is really exciting. It is like being on the inside of the best joke going. Getting caught or thinking that someone else might be wise to what is going on only adds to the thrill for me.

Feels right to do something so wrong. :newangel:

 

[lovinglife]

So we have a few that enjoy it so far. Is it mostly enjoyed as playful teasing or is it the kind of taboo nature of it? Or is it because the guy doesn't necessarily like it but you can tell he wants to like it (and he can't help himself)?

And Fade I don't necessarily think you're the odd one out, there haven't been many responses yet. I also definitely understand that stealth head/nudity (even if hidden by a table/skirt) would be uncomfortable.

Thanks for the responses so far

Personally I don't know how I would react if this happened to me. No doubt I would turn bright red and be bashful, but if the girl I am with enjoys it I would gladly participate. Maybe even try and turn it into a naughty game for when we end up getting home or something that can be done with it.

 

[paigexox]

Is it mostly enjoyed as playful teasing or is it the kind of taboo nature of it? Or is it because the guy doesn't necessarily like it but you can tell he wants to like it (and he can't help himself)?

I can find arousal in all three of those reasons.

 

[lovinglife]

I can find arousal in all three of those reasons.

lol, so just all around good fun for you then

 

[paigexox]

lol, so just all around good fun for you then

I can be pretty ruthless when it comes to the physical taunting. Stoking someone's sexual desire when you know they cannot openly act on it makes for a fantastic tease. Whether he is bashful about it or not, I can always pinpoint the transition in his motives when everything takes a backseat priority to getting me alone and available to his yearnings. That has to be lust at its most primal, and it makes for great fucking.

 

[lovinglife]

I can be pretty ruthless when it comes to the physical taunting. Stoking someone's sexual desire when you know they cannot openly act on it makes for a fantastic tease. Whether he is bashful about it or not, I can always pinpoint the transition in his motives when everything takes a backseat priority to getting me alone and available to his yearnings. That has to be lust at its most primal, and it makes for great fucking.

That definitely sounds amazing, and based on how I think I would act it is most certainly true. As a guy it is a strange feeling. I am both looking forward to this happening, and yet not at the same time just because I know how red I would be in public. Such a conflicting, yet awesome feeling that would turn into a very rewarding time later.

 

[Mercurygirl]

Absolutely. I love getting my guy worked up (getting worked up) over the course of a day/night out and then getting jumped when we get home. Makes for some hot passionate sex.